And a particular form will protect us from particular frailties but not others.
So we design a form of discourse to give us particular protections and opportunities.
However a new form of discourse has to be learnt and practised.
Active Listening is different form of discourse.
And Active Listening can be two partners, turn and turn about - first one listens, then the other.
So that Active Listening becomes a mutual activity.
Quite different from the competitive activity of argument.