Everybody wants the thing. They sometimes think they know what the thing looks like, so when they get that they realize they don't have it yet so they keep looking. Some people are so scared they will never get the thing that they are jealous of others who they think have it. Some people destroy themselves because they can't find the thing. Some people keep searching their whole life and never find it. Only when you know what the thing looks like can you journey toward acquiring as much of it as possible. When you know what it looks like you suddenly realize it was there with you the whole time and you are no longer scared of not finding it, and you stop destroying others and yourself or giving up.