family, friends et al can all leave, die, be wonderful, terrible or anywhere in between depending on the day and a host of other factors. material things can be wiped out in a NY minute. that's all a pretty flimsy hope to build on.
personally, i wouldn't put my trust in nature. she seems pretty pissed off these days.
with a name like nicodemus i'd think you'd know. i guess you're just blowing smoke. you do know that ole nic did become a follower of jesus, right? who knows, maybe there is even hope for you.As for 'making whole', what does that even mean?
as for 'making whole'...shalom: wholeness, peace, healing, prosperity, etc. etc.