What is it really? Does it actually exist? A lot of people claim to have it, yet they seem to hurt other people's feelings without even realizing it or intending to. If it doesn't help with this, what good is it for? Is social intelligence nothing more than not seeming odd or off-putting? Or is there more to it?
I've heard a lot about it, but no one has told me exactly what it is or how it works. Does having lots of friends = social intelligence? But what if someone only wants a few friends? Are they less socially intelligent?