Most people in this country would also agree that there's a God who personally cares about their own particular well-being. Furthermore, many of those people think that anyone who disagrees with them is condemned to eternal hellfire, while rapists and manipulators can be forgiven for their sins.But aside from differences in personal reaction, I think most people would agree that rape (including sodomy) is a far more violent and violating offense than romantic manipulation.
Consensus may be useful, but by no means is it meaningful in any real way.
That's the thing about guessing - it's sort of risky and pointless unless you know the person particularly well.And I didn't label or negate you. I guessed your motivation for the argument, but made it clear I was just guessing, ie. I was acknowledging that I could be wrong. I admit I can't read your mind.