Where I'm up to is working out what, if any, deeply held beliefs I have and how I want to live my life. Trouble is, I tend to be ruthlessly objective whenever I do come across something like that, because I want to make sure it's come from me.
I guess because one of my values is
don't inflict my beliefs or values on others.
And I prefer to look at a deeper level as to why
someone acts differently to what they say they believe in. Ultimately, I guess I'm aiming not to judge others (I'm a long way from that, but that's kinda what I've been working towards for a long time).
So without a firm foundation, what is there?