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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBeatGoesOn View Post
    Anticipating things to come, whether it be far into the future or right around the corner, or from things that you have experienced/are experiencing in the short term?
    when I've planned/anticipated to a certain degree to make things comfortable, then am able to let go of that and be in the moment. Yups. In that stillness is happiness. A quiet bubble of contentment that comes from having taken care of my duties first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post
    My feelings of contentment, however few and far between they may be, almost always occur during the present tense, whereas my feelings of happiness tend to be highly stimulated by either thoughts about the past or anticipations of the future.
    What CaptainChick said is pretty accurate for me too.

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    What makes you more happy?
    The feeling that I get when I'm enthusiastic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBeatGoesOn View Post
    Anticipating things to come, whether it be far into the future or right around the corner, or from things that you have experienced/are experiencing in the short term?
    Usually anticipating things, but I can appreciate a particularly meaningful moment as it happens, although that's rarer for me.

    Sometimes just daydreaming about possible realities, or intricate things can be a source of contentment as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    I have focused on the anticipation to my own detriment in life.
    I do that too.

    I have only been learning to "enjoy the moment" recently.
    I sometimes remind myself to be present, mentally and emotionally.

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    Both make me happy.

    Wouldn't it be awful to not feel happy about present events, or to not feel happy about upcoming events?

    They are different contexts, there is no "more" or "less"...just a different form of happiness. It's like asking if ice cream or mashed potatoes are better (assuming you like both)...they are both good in their proper place, and it'd be pretty sad if you couldn't enjoy both, at different times.

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    Anticipation. I find that anticipation keeps me excited while the actual experience is disappointing and nothing like what I imagined.

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    I'm usually more happy and content with the current, my experiences of the past, or the anticipation of whats to come can only add to or subtract from that.
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    I'm basically a happy girl.

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    I've thought this question over, and I feel I can't answer it properly because, since I never can seem to ground myself in the present (unless something HORRIBLE is happening and I can't ignore it), I rarely feel "happy" or contented. I'm always casting backward or forward. Anticipation became God long ago to compensate for the present being so bad and unlivable.

    Now I'm very much internally puzzled. :-\

    I'm not a type (eNFJ) to be very happy. I'm more rocked by storms than anything. Which is something I have to try and persuade myself isn't a personal failing.
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