I overlooked your response, and my post was not directed toward you.
Yes, but selfish is a much more agreed upon concept. Even though it is related to selfless, it is very far removed from this discussion IMO.
You are correct, the sum of a human is not conscious. Would you like subconscious actions (like breathing or a heartbeat) to be considered here? It seems like when discussion whether one is selfless or not, we would have to look at his/her conscious choices, rather than simply some automatic or subconscious action. I'm not sure of the relevance. Also, I included the term "etc," which was meant to include certain conscious "inclinations" not thought of.