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is false hope better than no hope?

False hope or no hope?


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miss fortune

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I was watching an old episode of The Mentalist while folding laundry and it was showing flashbacks to his childhood working at a carnival- his father wants to market a "healing crystal" to a dying girl to make some money. It's false hope, there's no way that it will cure her, but are a few days of peace of mind that might result from it a good thing? :huh:

I'm just wondering... is false hope in something- be it a placebo, a beleif system or what- better than having no hope at all, or is it better to ignore things that aren't true? :)
 

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I was watching an old episode of The Mentalist while folding laundry and it was showing flashbacks to his childhood working at a carnival- his father wants to market a "healing crystal" to a dying girl to make some money. It's false hope, there's no way that it will cure her, but are a few days of peace of mind that might result from it a good thing? :huh:

I'm just wondering... is false hope in something- be it a placebo, a beleif system or what- better than having no hope at all, or is it better to ignore things that aren't true? :)

I think that probably depends on the person. While someone could argue that false hope in the case of the little girl could lead to a few days of peace, someone else could argue that she may not spend those last few days saying goodbye to the people that she loves or doing the last few things she hoped to do before dying. I think there are benefits and disadvantages to false hope. I personally would rather know the truth and be able to plan accordingly so for me false hope would not be ideal.
 

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People always fare better with a beautiful lie than the ugly truth. That's why religion is hardwired to our brains.
 

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I knew someone who was dying of cancer who had a couple people try to convince her that if she prayed more she would be cured. So instead of focusing on what she had she was determined to "do" something to fix her terminal cancer. It was sad.

In certain situations false hope isn't a bad thing, but in serious situations like that people can get lost in the hope.
 

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Those who give false hope are doing it for themselves: they either selfishly get off seeing someone else happy, even if it's a lie, or they want to protect themselves by not seeing someone in pain.

However, I don't think it's "wrong" per se. But that's just my amorality talking.
 
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With false hope there's a high price to pay when the reality sets in. If there was a way to maintain false hope at will for very long periods, then yes, that would be better than having no hope at all. However, I don't think something like that happens in reality. Without mental illness or with the help of drugs, that is.
For a "healthy" person it's stagnation, if you get too caught up with it, there is no possibility of progress with illusions. But I guess for some people it can be beneficial to have false hope by maybe creating this kind of vacuum where things can develop or at least stand still long enough for the things that are causing trouble to stabilize. Sometimes there's very little a person can do to help themselves and instead of going crazy with no hope they can at least have that "peace of mind". Most of the time, though, having false hope is just a waste of time when you could go out and do someting significant. There should be hope but you'd still have to keep things real and running without getting caught in illusions that have no chance of becoming true. :thinking:
 

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People always fare better with a beautiful lie than the ugly truth. That's why religion is hardwired to our brains.

It is? :huh:

In which neuroanatomical substructure does the religious principle reside again?
 

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I'd rather have something to hope for... looking into an abyss and seeing nothing kind of shrivels my motivation somehow :cry:

sometimes you've got to take whatever gets you by... that's my thought anyways :)
 

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It is? :huh:

In which neuroanatomical substructure does the religious principle reside again?
I have no idea which neural structure is responsible for religion, but that it is genetically determined can be deduced from the fact that all cultures, no matter how isolated, have some sort of deity and spiritual belief (and with rather similar structures). Richard Dawkins and Matthew Alper have both presented the hypothesis, although Dawkins myopically attributes religion to a misfiring neural mechanism, rather than its correct functioning.
 

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False hope is a bad thing. Being in touch with the full reality of a situation is always best.
 

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Sometimes false hope can be a powerful healing agent; placebo effects are well known for such. Yeur brain is a powerful tool, and being able to trick it to take full advantage of that power instead of letting it stay dormant is rather useful.

However... it can also be quite bad... 'peace of mind' can come at a high cost... and if yeu get caught doing that, sometimes yeu can get in a nasty lawsuit for selling fake stuff.

There's also been quite a few cases of people DYING due to false hope... where they were absolutely certain that something would cure them! Aaaaand... it was a total hoax. So they passed over things that actually would've cured them to instead go with something that only offered hope but not actual help.

There's also situations where someone will do something truly stupid due to false hope, which can come back and bite them shortly after... I mean, how many people get drawn in on scams?

By the way... if yeu send me $5000, I'll return yeu a million sometime later on. I'm actually a nigerian prince. Srsly.
 
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