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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    I tried from my own perspective, from your rules, from your understanding?


    So why do I fail still?

    What am I missing?

    Reconsider the rules.

    Get a wise mentor.

    Conquer your demons.

    Never give up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Victor View Post

    For Christ's sake, he loves being depressed.
    If he does, then he is a winner!
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

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    From the Hitcher's Guide to the Galaxy:

    In the beginning the Universe was created.
    This has made a lot of people very angry and been widely regarded as a bad move.

    or

    "Life," said Marvin dolefully, "loathe it or ignore it, you can't like it."

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    I'm sorry you feel that way. But why post such a personal thing here? of all places. The wolves of rationality are already placing their superior tongues against their cheeks.
    Find someone sensitive to talk to. a real person. Not a digital similacrum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nebbykoo View Post
    I'm sorry you feel that way. But why post such a personal thing here? of all places. The wolves of rationality are already placing their superior tongues against their cheeks.
    Find someone sensitive to talk to. a real person. Not a digital similacrum.
    Hey, I take offense to that! I'm feel as if I have been one of the more nicer of people in this thread!

    Apart from the little wrestling with Victor part, maybe. But that had nothing to do with OP as a person!

    But I showed interest and asked questions, I did!

    *depressed* Life isn't treating me nice.
    ~Self-depricating Megalomaniacal Superwolf

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    If he does, then he is a winner!
    From Daria

    Store Manager: Youre our winner!
    Daria: Winner?
    Jane: You know its another word for loser

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    Yikes,

    I was pretty drunk last night so allow me to explain this thread in a less emo (not drunk) way, and it will make sense why it is in this section.

    Personal side: I have tried many approaches to life, am smart, dedicated, and crave success. In the last week I had to quit my job, because it became dead end. I am losing my patience with time, and am so sick of starting over. I don't see any real opportunity anywhere. I am not where I want to be. I don't have the answers, and the struggle is wearing me down. Not only that I am limited, by my family, support systems, whatever.

    Not so personal question: What causes our success in life. Is it playing by others rules (work hard put in your time and hope someone gifts you opportunity). Is it playing by our own (stopping at nothing to create your own opportunity despite the conflict, competition, and opposition this approach brings).

    I am at another turning point where I am having to start all over again. I aim higher but end up with the same scenarios. Is it me? Am I missing something?

    What are the rules of success, that lead to a happy and healthy life? What do you need to lock in to in order to rise to the top?

    In the ENTJ thread someone said we can be a bit scary when in positions of power, but I disagree with this point. I think the only scary ENTJ is one who is not.

    *Hope that sounded less emo.

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    I think if you find the answers to those questions then you'll become a very rich person and i'll pay for that also.

    When i start over, i use the analogy of 'dust myself down and get back on the horse' .. But as my mum recently stated to me .. It gets fucking tiring dusting myself down after 49 years *sigh*

    It would be pleasent for things to get easier as we get older .. However sometimes it feels like life is working against us (me).
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
    ― Georgia O'Keeffe

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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    I think if you find the answers to those questions then you'll become a very rich person and i'll pay for that also.

    When i start over, i use the analogy of 'dust myself down and get back on the horse' .. But as my mum recently stated to me .. It gets fucking tiring dusting myself down after 49 years *sigh*

    It would be pleasent for things to get easier as we get older .. However sometimes it feels like life is working against us (me).
    That is my goal!

    Lol, I suppose it is a silly question. I just damn myself for not knowing the answers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Litvyak View Post
    Great. Come to Loserland.



    Even our national anthem reminds us constantly that we are, in fact, losers.
    The only other "sad" national anthem is Ha'Tikva, but even that gives "hope" to people.

    So come and join us, I'm sure you'll feel much better. Until we kick the shit out of you for being a foreigner. Ya know, hospitality and all.
    I might be there next year. See you in Buda.

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