Men typically express their aggression physically, while women typically express their aggression verbally.
The hidden culture of aggression in girls was revealed some time ago by Rachel Simmons in her book, "Odd Girl Out". And has been confirmed and detailed in study after study ever since.
Female aggression is often directed agains other women, and is performed by a group of women against a victim, and it is immediately emotionally painful and does long term emotional damage.
So women start very young practising verbal aggression, under the radar, against other women, so by the time they have reached puberty, women have stolen a march on men.
Men enter puberty with no idea at all of how to deal with female verbal aggression, they are like lambs led to the slaughter.
And men make the strategic mistake of responding to verbal aggression with physical aggression. This only proves men are toxic animals, and women are innocent victims.