"Warm apple pie."
Not really. Since I'm sure you've done some "solo flights," just think of that but more satisfying. I won't go into gory anatomical details, but trust me, you do it once and you're like "oh, that's what that's for."
Your opinion on the subject does nothing to make you more or less human. If it's bothering you that you don't do something, generally I've found the best solution is to go out and do it. (heh-heh) Or don't. Up to you. But it's really not as complicated as you're making it out to be.