The things you think, feel and do
As much as I'd like to separate the components they all actually matter
How you think and feel creates an internal image of how you view yourself
What you do creates an external image as to how others view you
It is possible for no or minimal correlation to exist between the two
Thinking and feeling can exist at a concious or subconcious level which translates to concious decisions or actions which others can see, but you might not realise it until you conduct some self-analysis. Makes sense?