Under the "rules" or guidelines of Biblical Christianity, can gay people marry or love without discrimination? Not in most churches I know of. Can Christians love and marry whoever they want, even non Christians? Not according to most Christians I know. Can women experience a full, individual, free life without submitting to men? Not most of the Christian women I know. How do people laugh their way through life if others are looking over their shoulders telling them what things are supposed to be funny and what things aren't because they're "ungodly"? If you are happy with Christianity, your family, your love, etc. that is wonderful. But it might not be everyone else's definition of happiness in this short life.