I came in a phase in life, where I ask myself fundamental questions about it.
After thinking long about my problems etc. i have reached the conclusion that for many "problems" in my life is the very low self esteem... trying to find innere peace a passion in life is inpossible if you do not life you life and feel comfortable with self, if you have negative thoughts... what do you think?
Creating values and helping others did not helped me vey much from that because being ncie but not assertive is quiet bad for a men
Values are relative. Being good to people is relative. If you do good to people, if you threat them nice, but there is still hate how to act??