Is it worse for women?

[bluemonday]

Originally Posted by Jack Flak

Where is the word deserve? I stand by my win.

you stand alone!

[heart]

Originally Posted by bluemonday

I would like to add that I think it's very unfair that women are so much better-looking than men. A few mutant specimens aside, men are a bloody ugly lot.

Men are not ugly. Women are not "better looking" than men, just different. I prefer looking at men over looking at women if given a choice, the male body has its own beauty and believe me it's not "a few specimens" there's a lot of beautiful men out there in everyday life.

I would never be so bold as to tell them, but I notice them.

[bluemonday]

Originally Posted by heart

Men are not ugly. Women are not "better looking" than men, just different. I prefer looking at men over looking at women if given a choice, the male body has its own beauty.

maybe not in Colinwood - you should get out more

[Jack Flak]

"Worthy of love" can only possibly be defined by being loved. I really don't understand all this argee bargee. :P

[bluemonday]

Originally Posted by Jack Flak

I really don't understand all this argee bargee. :P

clearly :P :P

[Ivy]

Originally Posted by disregard

I think that if you always feel that you aren't pretty enough, it isn't your looks that are to blame, but low self-esteem. Not unlike the beautiful straight-A student that starves herself and feels that she's ugly and fat. When you do not accept yourself as you are, you will use aspects of your person(ality) as scapegoats.

How can I put this delicately? I'll try. This is fairly insightful but it rings a bit hollow coming from a total smokin' hottie such as yourself. It's hard to pin down cause vs. effect here. The straight-A student who is ugly and fat may have low self-esteem because she's considered ugly and fat. And that probably makes her overeat and neglect her appearance, which keeps her from escaping her ugly and fatness.

I don't (usually) think I'm ugly but I've been various degrees of fat since the 3rd grade, and it sucks major ass. I really do have healthy self-esteem otherwise and I think if I could magically be not-a-fatty it would be nothing but positive.

[heart]

Originally Posted by bluemonday

maybe not in Colinwood - you should get out more

Actually Indiana has the best looking men I've seen so far. Cornfed.

Well, all I can say is: Open your eyes to male beauty!

[heart]

Originally Posted by Ivy

How can I put this delicately? I'll try. This is fairly insightful but it rings a bit hollow coming from a total smokin' hottie such as yourself. It's hard to pin down cause vs. effect here. The straight-A student who is ugly and fat may have low self-esteem because she's considered ugly and fat. And that probably makes her overeat and neglect her appearance, which keeps her from escaping her ugly and fatness.

I don't (usually) think I'm ugly but I've been various degrees of fat since the 3rd grade, and it sucks major ass. I really do have healthy self-esteem otherwise and I think if I could magically be not-a-fatty it would be nothing but positive.

I continue to have issues with my facial features (called ugly in school), it never really goes away. But I wouldn't go through the expense or PAIN of plastic surgery to fix any of them. But if I suddenly woke up one morning and looked better it would be nothing but positive.

[entropie]

Originally Posted by heart

I continue to have issues with my facial features (called ugly in school), it never really goes away. But I wouldn't go through the expense or PAIN of plastic surgery to fix any of them. But if I suddenly woke up one morning and looked better it would be nothing but positive.

fuck facial features, if the heart sucks, the whole person sucks ! And that's not the case here *slips on slime*

[burkeus]

Originally Posted by heart

Actually Indiana has the best looking men I've seen so far. Cornfed.

Well, all I can say is: Open your eyes to male beauty!

Where's Indiana