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A hypothesis has just occured to me:
First-borns and only children have greater intellectual independence, leading to conviction in judgment and higher skill in such things as debate. Younger siblings rely heavily on older siblings for judgments, thus, on average, have reduced ability to think on their own. This is purely concerned with environment, thus if children are raised separately, it doesn't apply. What say you? |
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Stealing your stem cells
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I am a first-born, and I like to debate. I have two younger sisters, with the younger one being less outspoken than the middle one.
I'm not sure how childhood social life might effect this, I had a big group of friends as a kid, but think it had no effect on mental independence. |
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I can back it up anecdotally. I pretty much idolized my older brother and had to consciously form my own identity apart from him as a young adult. I had to decide whether I really liked music because I liked it, or because he liked it, things like that.
I have always kicked ass at debate (don't really do it much anymore because it's exhausting and I don't care to be right so much anymore), but even that was in part because he liked having a scrappy little sister who kicked ass.
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Older siblings don't have the cute factor so they have to try to convince parents on their level. I know I was the only one who could compel my dad to do anything. He would sometimes remark to my mom later "I don't know how she got me to let her do such-and-such, I was going to say no."
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What strateg(ies) would you use to properly isolate the variable you're theorizing about? Right now, the responses here -- while interesting anecdotes -- are mostly just begging the question. |
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Stealing your stem cells
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I think first-borns might end up arguing with their parents more partly because since they are their parents first kid, they don't really know what they are doing, so the first-born will seize upon their child naivety and unsureness with argument to get what they want.
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If my idea and the resulting contemplation by others results in a greater awareness of the nuances of the human psyche by anyone, I consider my mission accomplished. |
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Bah, I know I can't ![]() (I actually have no idea how to isolate the environmental factors here! Perhaps age gap, assuming that older-older didn't step in like closer siblings... but that's weak, and you get into the resource issues again, etc.) |
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i am the only childz
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