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Attachment Style Test

meme duchess

mein, memeself, and MeMe
Joined
Jul 19, 2015
Messages
275
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
9w1
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
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Joined
Dec 28, 2016
Messages
1,566
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
459
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
Avoidance of Closeness

(idk how to get the picture, but the mark is a little bit before 33, I'll say maybe 30)

Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who is very at ease getting close to a partner. You are also comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, as well has having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.

Mostly true, but I don't like to burden others at all, though I don't mind if they have to lean on me. I've gotten a bit better at letting myself do that though.
 

Falcarius

The Unwieldy Clawed One
Joined
Apr 23, 2007
Messages
3,514
MBTI Type
COOL
Another one for Avoidance of Closeness - 56

Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who gets somewhat uneasy when a relationship becomes closer. You are also not entirely comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, nor having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.
 

Red Memories

Haunted Echoes
Joined
Jun 3, 2017
Messages
6,280
MBTI Type
ESFP
Enneagram
215
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Snapshot Report
Avoidance of Closeness
39
Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who is very at ease getting close to a partner. You are also comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, as well has having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.
 

Merced

Talk to me.
Joined
May 14, 2016
Messages
3,596
MBTI Type
ESTJ
Enneagram
28?
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
Avoidance to Closeness: 83/100
 

magpie

Permabanned
Joined
Jan 21, 2010
Messages
3,428
Enneagram
614
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
48

Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who is very at ease getting close to a partner. You are also comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, as well has having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.
 

Verona

New member
Joined
May 9, 2016
Messages
590
MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
6w5
Instinctual Variant
sp
10/100

Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who is very at ease getting close to a partner. You are also comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, as well has having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.
 

Abcdenfp

Terpsichore
Joined
May 19, 2017
Messages
1,669
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
7W8
Avoidance of closeness as well wtf this thing is Broken... 61/100
 

á´…eparted

passages
Joined
Jan 25, 2014
Messages
8,265
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This doesn't surprise me. My main thing is I have a fierce independence streak, and I recoil at any situation which requires me to rely on someone when it would theoretically be possible to do it myself.
 

Merced

Talk to me.
Joined
May 14, 2016
Messages
3,596
MBTI Type
ESTJ
Enneagram
28?
Instinctual Variant
so/sp
XoNiSlQ.png


This doesn't surprise me. My main thing is I have a fierce independence streak, and I recoil at any situation which requires me to rely on someone when it would theoretically be possible to do it myself.

This
 

supersleuth

New member
Joined
Jun 13, 2014
Messages
72
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
5w4
Instinctual Variant
sp
Avoidance of Closeness

77/100

Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who is prefers not to get too close to a partner (if at all). You are also not comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, as well has having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.
 

Peter Deadpan

phallus impudicus
Joined
Dec 14, 2016
Messages
8,882
I tried to answer thinking back to how I have been historically for a more accurate average. I think currently I am much more avoidant than I am normally, so an accurate present score would be more like 60+. I have also been very anxiously attached in other relationships, and I think it's entirely dependent on the attachment style of my partner and my mental health (avoidant partners have made me more clingy, and clingy partners make me more avoidant).

Avoidance of Closeness: 50
Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who gets somewhat uneasy when a relationship becomes closer. You are also not entirely comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, nor having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.
 

StrawberryBoots

New member
Joined
Dec 29, 2016
Messages
407
I took the test 4 times. Last night, I scored 38. Today, I scored 29. The description for both scores appeared to be the same:

Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who is very at ease getting close to a partner. You are also comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, as well has having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.
 

Peter Deadpan

phallus impudicus
Joined
Dec 14, 2016
Messages
8,882
I took the test 4 times. Last night, I scored 38. Today, I scored 29. The description for both scores appeared to be the same:

Whether it involves emotional expression or developing a deep intimate bond, you're the type of person who is very at ease getting close to a partner. You are also comfortable relying on your partner when necessary, as well has having him/her dependent upon you in times of need.

Four times? Why.
 
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