"NTs are known for honesty and fairness, but not for exceptional skills in empathizing with others." <--- for me, i end up wondering sometimes what i did wrong, what said.
like one time instead of offering an ear, i argued with a friend about how he was wrong to be angry. that did not turn out well, and i became angry when he could not deal with the truth and acted like a grown child still. we are not on speaking terms at the moment. if im wrong, i always expect truth an not someone to coddle my feelings because i don`t want to be babied, i want to know the truth about something. i assumed that was the case with my friend, he would want the truth as well but he just wanted an ear a there there. something i feel unable to do.