For me, I certainly don't want to be seen a rebel, nor am I very comfortable with who I am.
It is just that they frequently used the words "always" and "never" in their statements of socially desirable activities, and phrases like "there have been times", or "few occasions" in their statements of socially undesirable things. It was just easy for me to think of examples where I acted in socially undesirable ways.
I suppose one other possibility is that I am really in asshole, and not really the nice guy I think of myself as.
Did people really manage to be as good a person as those statements make them out to be? Like really "always ___" or "never ___"?