Relationship Test

[BlackCat]

Security 100
Avoidance 60
Ambivalence 61
Worry 56
Merger 67

You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

 

[CloudCuckooLander]

Security 100
Avoidance 13
Ambivalence 33
Worry 0
Merger 67

You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You do not have any commitment issues and find it easy to commit emotionally to relationships, both new and existing. People find it easy to get close to you and draw great satisfaction from relationships with you.

You have good self confidence and do not spend overly much time worrying about the success or failure of your relationships. This attitude allows you to be more relaxed in a relationship and is of great benefit.You are confident that your partner, family or friends love you for who you are and you do not spend any time worrying about your relationships with them. This generally means that you have good self esteem and are mostly able to have successful and meaningful relationships. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

 

[Polaris]

Security 100
Avoidance 40
Ambivalence 67
Worry 67
Merger 67

You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

While you have the ability to commit emotionally to a relationship, you can find at times that you have some commitment issues. Be careful not to let these issues dominate your relationships as it could lead to you pushing people away.

You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You can get somewhat neurotic about your relationships and find yourself worrying about them frequently. You focus some energy on worrying about being abandoned and this can sometimes lead to problems in your relationships. Worrying less about if you are loved or not could help you to enjoy existing relationships more. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

I don't have commitment issues; I just find it difficult to make meaningful connections. The rest of it sounds accurate, though.

 

[Saslou]

Sas .. You're screwed, lol

Security 78
Avoidance 40
Ambivalence 50
Worry 56
Merger 44

You have good security in your relationships and receive comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

While you have the ability to commit emotionally to a relationship, you can find at times that you have some commitment issues. Be careful not to let these issues dominate your relationships as it could lead to you pushing people away.

While sometimes you can stress too much about relationships, you do tend to have an overal good attitude towards their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them could possibly assist in their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are not overly clingy in relationships and tend to allow your partner, family or friends the space that they need to breathe.

 

[Verfremdungseffekt]

Security 56
Avoidance 93
Ambivalence 39
Worry 67
Merger 11

You have moderate security in your relationships and receive some comfort from being around the people you love. This will sometimes help you to cope with life and to be stronger in other situations.

You have commitment issues and find it very difficult to commit yourself emotionally to any relationship. This means that other people find it very difficult to get close to you and may not draw much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

You have good self confidence and do not spend overly much time worrying about the success or failure of your relationships. This attitude allows you to be more relaxed in a relationship and is of great benefit.You can get somewhat neurotic about your relationships and find yourself worrying about them frequently. You focus some energy on worrying about being abandoned and this can sometimes lead to problems in your relationships. Worrying less about if you are loved or not could help you to enjoy existing relationships more. You are not at all clingy in relationships and have a healthy attitude towards how close a relationship needs to be.

 

[JocktheMotie]

Security 56
Avoidance 67
Ambivalence 50
Worry 67
Merger 33

You have moderate security in your relationships and receive some comfort from being around the people you love. This will sometimes help you to cope with life and to be stronger in other situations.

You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

While sometimes you can stress too much about relationships, you do tend to have an overal good attitude towards their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them could possibly assist in their longevity and success.You can get somewhat neurotic about your relationships and find yourself worrying about them frequently. You focus some energy on worrying about being abandoned and this can sometimes lead to problems in your relationships. Worrying less about if you are loved or not could help you to enjoy existing relationships more. You are not at all clingy in relationships and have a healthy attitude towards how close a relationship needs to be.

 

[INFtha14]

Security 67
Avoidance 73
Ambivalence 39
Worry 44
Merger 33

You have good security in your relationships and receive comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

You have good self confidence and do not spend overly much time worrying about the success or failure of your relationships. This attitude allows you to be more relaxed in a relationship and is of great benefit.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are not at all clingy in relationships and have a healthy attitude towards how close a relationship needs to be.

This actually hit it pretty good all around . On the difficulty opening/commiting myself up emotionally to relationships, of course new ones it's going to be alittle challenging. "Emotionally" commiting takes time.

 

[phoenix13]

Security 67
Avoidance 40
Ambivalence 0
Worry 0
Merger 0

That was a short test!

 

[A window to the soul]

Security 100
Avoidance 47
Ambivalence 6
Worry 0
Merger 11

You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

While you have the ability to commit emotionally to a relationship, you can find at times that you have some commitment issues. Be careful not to let these issues dominate your relationships as it could lead to you pushing people away.

You have great self confidence and do not spend much or even any time worrying about the success or failure of your relationships. This attitude allows you to be much more relaxed in a relationship and is of great benefit.You are confident that your partner, family or friends love you for who you are and you do not spend any time worrying about your relationships with them. This generally means that you have good self esteem and are mostly able to have successful and meaningful relationships. You are not at all clingy in relationships and have a healthy attitude towards how close a relationship needs to be.

 

[ArghJo]

Security 78
Avoidance 73
Ambivalence 57
Worry 56
Merger 78

You have good security in your relationships and receive comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

ok this is kinda true.

 

[alcea rosea]

Security 44
Avoidance 67
Ambivalence 56
Worry 56
Merger 56


Overview
You have moderate security in your relationships and receive some comfort from being around the people you love. This will sometimes help you to cope with life and to be stronger in other situations.

You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

While sometimes you can stress too much about relationships, you do tend to have an overal good attitude towards their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them could possibly assist in their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are not overly clingy in relationships and tend to allow your partner, family or friends the space that they need to breathe.

 

[Tyrinth]

Security
67
Avoidance
87
Ambivalence
72
Worry
100
Merger
44

Overview
You have good security in your relationships and receive comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You have commitment issues and find it very difficult to commit yourself emotionally to any relationship. This means that other people find it very difficult to get close to you and may not draw much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You can get very neurotic about your relationships and find yourself spending a great deal of time worrying about them. You focus much energy on worrying about being abandoned and this can lead to problems in your relationships. Worrying less about if you are loved or not could help you to enjoy existing relationships more. You are not overly clingy in relationships and tend to allow your partner, family or friends the space that they need to breathe.

 

[Hazashin]

Security:78
Avoidance: 7
Ambivalence: 83
Worry: 89
Merger: 78

Overview
You have good security in your relationships and receive comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You do not have any commitment issues and find it easy to commit emotionally to relationships, both new and existing. People find it easy to get close to you and draw great satisfaction from relationships with you.

You stress too much about relationships and place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You can get very neurotic about your relationships and find yourself spending a great deal of time worrying about them. You focus much energy on worrying about being abandoned and this can lead to problems in your relationships. Worrying less about if you are loved or not could help you to enjoy existing relationships more. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

 

[Thursday]

Good test. Short and sweet like @shortandsweet.

Security 89
Avoidance 40
Ambivalence 39
Worry 22
Merger 56

You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

While you have the ability to commit emotionally to a relationship, you can find at times that you have some commitment issues. Be careful not to let these issues dominate your relationships as it could lead to you pushing people away.

You have good self confidence and do not spend overly much time worrying about the success or failure of your relationships. This attitude allows you to be more relaxed in a relationship and is of great benefit.You are fairly confident that your partner, family or friends love you for who you are and you do not spend much time worrying about your relationships with them. This generally means that you have good self esteem and are mostly able to have successful and meaningful relationships. You are not overly clingy in relationships and tend to allow your partner, family or friends the space that they need to breathe.

 

[Turtledove]

Security 89
Avoidance 47
Ambivalence 44
Worry 44
Merger 44


Overview
You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

While you have the ability to commit emotionally to a relationship, you can find at times that you have some commitment issues. Be careful not to let these issues dominate your relationships as it could lead to you pushing people away.

While sometimes you can stress too much about relationships, you do tend to have an overal good attitude towards their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them could possibly assist in their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are not overly clingy in relationships and tend to allow your partner, family or friends the space that they need to breathe.

Interesting...I thought my avoidance level would be high but I seem more okay than I thought. I'm just more introverted and need to not be afraid to speak to others more.

 

[BlackCat]

Security 100
Avoidance 60
Ambivalence 61
Worry 56
Merger 67

You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

Let's see what I get a year and a half later!


Security 100

Avoidance 27

Ambivalence 72

Worry 56

Merger 89


You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

You do not have commitment issues and are able to commit emotionally to relationships. People find it easy to get close to you and draw great satisfaction from relationships with you.

You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are overly clingy in relationships and try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

 

[011235813]

Security 100
Avoidance 40
Ambivalence 44
Worry 56
Merger 44

Overview
You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

While you have the ability to commit emotionally to a relationship, you can find at times that you have some commitment issues. Be careful not to let these issues dominate your relationships as it could lead to you pushing people away.

While sometimes you can stress too much about relationships, you do tend to have an overal good attitude towards their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them could possibly assist in their longevity and success.You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are not at all clingy in relationships and have a healthy attitude towards how close a relationship needs to be.

 

[1487610420]

Security 89
Avoidance 53
Ambivalence 17
Worry 0
Merger 33

Overview
You have great security in your relationships and receive good comfort from being around the people you love. This helps you to cope with life and to be strong in other situations.

While you have the ability to commit emotionally to a relationship, you can find at times that you have some commitment issues. Be careful not to let these issues dominate your relationships as it could lead to you pushing people away.

You have great self confidence and do not spend much or even any time worrying about the success or failure of your relationships. This attitude allows you to be much more relaxed in a relationship and is of great benefit.You are confident that your partner, family or friends love you for who you are and you do not spend any time worrying about your relationships with them. This generally means that you have good self esteem and are mostly able to have successful and meaningful relationships. You are not at all clingy in relationships and have a healthy attitude towards how close a relationship needs to be.

 

[LadyLazarus]

Security
100
Avoidance
20
Ambivalence
61

You do not have commitment issues and are able to commit emotionally to relationships. People find it easy to get close to you and draw great satisfaction from relationships with you. (Haha...NO.)

You stress a bit too much about relationships and can sometimes place too much importance on their success or failure. Worrying less about relationships and spending more time enjoying them will help their longevity and success.

You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

2 / 6 - Ambivalence

Overall Score
61
Worry
44
Merger
78

You are moderately worried about being abandoned in your relationships, and do spend some time worrying if your partner, family or friends still love you. However generally you are able to overcome these feelings. You are sometimes overly clingy in relationships and may try too hard to dominate the affections of people who are close to you. This behaviour can sometimes have a bad effect on the relationship and may drive people away.

Sometimes?

 

[Haven]

Security
44
Avoidance
80
Ambivalence
22

You have some commitment issues and often find it difficult to commit yourself emotionally to a relationship (specifically new ones). This means that other people can find it difficult to get close to you and may not draw as much satisfaction from being in a relationship with you. Making an effort to open yourself up more to new relationships could help you to have more emotional stability and to enjoy relationships more.

You have good self confidence and do not spend overly much time worrying about the success or failure of your relationships. This attitude allows you to be more relaxed in a relationship and is of great benefit.

You are not at all clingy in relationships and have a healthy attitude towards how close a relationship needs to be.