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    I don't know...I just feel like someone who doesn't really love you can use words of affirmation and physical touch to create the illusion they love you, but if they really love you, it comes in more through service and quality time. Love is action. Does anybody understand this?
    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by OneWithSoul View Post
    I don't know...I just feel like someone who doesn't really love you can use words of affirmation and physical touch to create the illusion they love you, but if they really love you, it comes in more through service and quality time. Love is action. Does anybody understand this?
    It's hard to fake sincerity in true words of affirmation, though, since it takes knowing how to communicate to your partner.

    People who don't love you can also fake service and quality time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greed View Post
    It's hard to fake sincerity in true words of affirmation, though, since it takes knowing how to communicate to your partner.

    People who don't love you can also fake service and quality time.
    I know.

    It's just hard when you've been around it and know that when someone tells you they love you and all and then leaves you and I'm not talking about a relationship- it happened in my family..so I don't think I see eye to eye on this one with you.
    Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?

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    Words of Affirmation 7
    Quality Time 9
    Receiving Gifts 4
    Acts of Service 7
    Physical Touch 3

    I think my Acts of Service and Physical Touch are skewed by my being a mother of three little people. :P Normally, I love Physical Touch (unselfish Physical touch...and I can *tell*) and before being a parent couldn't give a rat's patooty about Acts of Service. But since it's hard to get a hand free when you're a parent, Acts become really important for a season.

    I think the answers can be skewed by life situation.
    I think I think more than you think I think.

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    Code:
    Quality Time            12  
    Physical Touch          9 
    Acts of Service         4  
    Words of Affirmation    4  
    Receiving Gifts         1
    Quality of time does not = quantity of time. The time apart should enhance the time together. Also, I struggle with those that have receiving gifts as a primary language of love. I'm just not geared to think that way all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Udog View Post
    Also, I struggle with those that have receiving gifts as a primary language of love. I'm just not geared to think that way all the time.
    Me too, infact you'll be lucky if I remember your birthday in time to get you a gift, have to come down off the clouds for that you know.
    Echo - "So are you trying to say she is Evil"

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    27% Words of Affirmation 8
    30% Quality Time 9
    0% Receiving Gifts 0
    27% Acts of Service 8
    17% Physical Touch 5
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    30% Quality Time
    23% Physical Touch
    20% Acts of Service
    17% Words of Affirmation
    10% Receiving Gifts
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    Oh our 3rd person reference to ourselves denotes nothing more than we realize we are epic characters on the forum.

    Narcissism, plain and simple.

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    Words of Affirmation - 20%
    Quality Time - 37%
    Receiving Gifts - 0%
    Acts of Service - 30%
    Physical Touch - 13%

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    This test is okay, but I don't know about it, honestly. I went by what worked best in my longest, most serious relationship. If I were to go by these results, I'd call myself an S, not an N, and that isn't the case at all.

    10% Words of Affirmation 3
    17% Quality Time 5
    13% Receiving Gifts 4
    20% Acts of Service 6
    40% Physical Touch 12

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