Sounds alot like how i go about things. I could see that as a definite possibility with how much I relate to what you say Jenn.
In my intimate relations I definitely see a whole "don't control me, I don't control you kind of vibe". This actually has caused quite abit of conflict with my mother and I.
Cause when she'd be expressing care to me sometimes it would seem like she was trying to control my life *technically she was but her intentions were not to purely control. She was and is afraid of losing her daughters as they seperate from her aka Grow up.*
I actually get really upset when someone tries to control my decisions.
Either on board or get off the "train". Don't have to like my decision with my life but can at least respect them as mine and my own. * "take it or leave it" as a responding phlegmatic in Control.*
And a big yes to the Supine-Phlegmatic in not expecting others to read my mind.
I actually get frustrated when others expect me to read there's when it only ends in confusion and frustration.
I definitely as Supine-phlegmatic in Affection need a strong assertive cue to know what to do and if it's wanted. I can definitely seem indifferent which is too far from the truth in what's happening internally. Sounds like a very definite possibility Jenn. I'm no expert haha just I could have wrote what you did for Control/Affection.
That's so cool that You and Eric B are Supines :O. Wow...Interesting.