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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    And violent too. (don't forget that.)
    That's only got one vote so far (versus 4 for hostile) - though I suppose it should count double coming from someone who knows me IRL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    That's only got one vote so far (versus 4 for hostile) - though I suppose it should count double coming from someone who knows me IRL.
    That was my thought...!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    On behalf of all 'voters': You asked that people be anonymous, so do you want the people who picked those things to tell you why or...?

    Incidentally, I would like to reiterate that for me it's been a painful process of elimination so far rather than an eager zoning in on weaknesses I always wanted to tell people that they had.

    (Of course, I'm hostile enough to have told them already. )
    Hmmm, I guess I wasn't completely aware of the impressions I was giving off on the forum. I figured inflexible/overdramatic would be my most commonly cited negatives but not cold and withdrawn and I'm also surprised over the intolerant. I tend to keep my opinions to myself except for the N superiority thing in all of it's various formats, I know I'm very vocal about that. Otherwise, I haven't really commented about non-MBTI hot button topics.

    If people really want to tell me why, I have no problem with a PM. You won't be anonymous anymore, but I'm interested in hearing it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    Here's an odd one. In my Johari window, I don't have anything under "facade." I guess that is good...? (i.e., there is nothing so far that I know/think about myself that others do not see?)
    ZOMG! No one's calling me ingenious - I cannot be an INTJ then!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    ZOMG! No one's calling me ingenious - I cannot be an INTJ then!
    Nope. And all those ESTJs are pretty hostile and violent, dontcha think? *gasp*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    Here's an odd one. In my Johari window, I don't have anything under "facade." I guess that is good...? (i.e., there is nothing so far that I know/think about myself that others do not see?)
    More like you know what you do well and make sure everyone else knows it too. (Not in the bragging sort of way, but your identity is strongly expressed).

    Actually, similar to mine, people just ticked off half of the words (yours is worse than mine!)... which covers everything

    But the first reason sounds fancier, so I'm going with that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ptgatsby View Post
    More like you know what you do well and make sure everyone else knows it too. (Not in the bragging sort of way, but your identity is strongly expressed).
    Cynic.

    No, actually, I follow that. It could be partly "self-promotion" ... but in the positive sense, not necessary a negative. Or simply the Ti thing, finding the "definition" of me and then trying to conform to it and promote it, rather than living as instinctively as I could. (The results would be similar either way... except I am consciously pushing things I know about myself and conforming to them, and not allowing as much variability.)
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    I made my real life friends take the tests for me.

    Which do you think would be more interesting to examine:

    1. comparing the separate internet (not yet made) and RL versions?
    2. just posting the RL ones and asking for feedback from internet?
    3. some other option
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    Quote Originally Posted by Usehername View Post
    I made my real life friends take the tests for me.

    Which do you think would be more interesting to examine:

    1. comparing the separate internet (not yet made) and RL versions?
    2. just posting the RL ones and asking for feedback from internet?
    3. some other option

    Well, one thing I noted is that I got very few "Introverted" mentions... but in RL I'd probably have far more heavily based introverted (for some friends) and some very... uhh... disagreeable traits (cold, ruthless, psychopathic ) on others.

    So, for that... I'm curious about the Internet vs RL versions the most (#1). It's also fairly easy, since they have the % measurements on the site. Can compare relative strength and spread... pretty interesting to me, anyway.

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    I think doing both (#1) would be the most interesting by far. You just have to convert the test into paper, so your friends can fill it out for you.

    Then post the results here.
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