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    Quote Originally Posted by Thalassa View Post
    Oh our 3rd person reference to ourselves denotes nothing more than we realize we are epic characters on the forum.

    Narcissism, plain and simple.


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    This thread needs a catchier title.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    This thread needs a catchier title.
    As you wish!
    "Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"

    “Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    As you wish!
    Nifty.

    (I'll be mass PM'ing if the rate of participation doesn't improve after this.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    There was an interesting grid developed in the 50's, to compare one's self-assessment with how one is truly perceived by others.

    (Read more about the Johari window.)
    I'd never heard of this until a few months ago, and then it was mentioned at my uncles wake of all things. Back in the early 70s he wrote and directed a movie at Carleton University called "The Johari Window" which was promptly blacklisted and pulled because it was too controversial.

    OK I've done it.

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    The Nohari ones that surprise me the most are the cold, withdrawn, needy, and insecure. I wonder how I've given people these impressions!

    Not really surprised with the rest.
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    The Nohari ones that surprise me the most are the cold, withdrawn, needy, and insecure. I wonder how I've given people these impressions!
    On behalf of all 'voters': You asked that people be anonymous, so do you want the people who picked those things to tell you why or...?

    Incidentally, I would like to reiterate that for me it's been a painful process of elimination so far rather than an eager zoning in on weaknesses I always wanted to tell people that they had.

    (Of course, I'm hostile enough to have told them already. )

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    Incidentally, I would like to reiterate that for me it's been a painful process of elimination so far rather than an eager zoning in on weaknesses I always wanted to tell people that they had.
    Uh huh. I tried very hard to be fair and step outside my own "type identity" -- i.e., not just having knee-jerk reactions against people who are different than me and have traits that might personally grate on me. But I still did feel somewhat bad about pointing things out.

    Then again, that's why I went first.

    (Of course, I'm hostile enough to have told them already. )
    And violent too. (don't forget that.)

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    Here's an odd one. In my Johari window, I don't have anything under "facade." I guess that is good...? (i.e., there is nothing so far that I know/think about myself that others do not see?)
    "Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"

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