INTJ/ENTP

[passingby]

Do INTJs and ENTPs make a good match? Would appreciate your opinions

[Economica]

Originally Posted by passingby

Do INTJs and ENTPs make a good match? Would appreciate your opinions

Yes, one of the best - personalitypage has it as one of its two recommended matches for each (the others being ENFP for the INTJ and INFJ for the ENTP). I can vouch for the chemistry of both matches - here's a gushing post of mine about the Ne/Ni dynamic.

Regarding the problems of the match, see this thread: ENTP male dating an INTJ female

[substitute]

All I can say is...

[Trinity]

Meh, ENTPs are arrright

They're the only type that can simultaneously scare and intrigue me with ease, that make me damn curious, that's gotta be a good thing right

[Enjamin]

Originally Posted by Trinity

Meh, ENTPs are arrright

They're the only type that can simultaneously scare and intrigue me with ease, that make me damn curious, that's gotta be a good thing right

I think I have that effect upon people!

[substitute]

Originally Posted by Trinity

Meh, ENTPs are arrright
They're the only type that can simultaneously scare and intrigue me with ease, that make me damn curious, that's gotta be a good thing right

Yeah, xNTJ's do the same to me. Drives me crazy in a kinda way.

[Uytuun]

Originally Posted by Trinity

They're the only type that can simultaneously scare and intrigue me with ease, that make me damn curious, that's gotta be a good thing right

ENP ftw.

[Trinity]

^ seems so.

Originally Posted by Enjamin

I think I have that effect upon people!

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Originally Posted by substitute

Yeah, xNTJ's do the same to me. Drives me crazy in a kinda way.

Kay but scary? like SCARY? heeee! Awesome

[Nocap]

One of my best buddies is an INTJ.

INFJs pwn too.



Yeah, intuitive dominant types can like eachother.

[substitute]

Originally Posted by Trinity

Kay but scary? like SCARY? heeee! Awesome

What you mean you don't understand NTJ's being seen as scary?

Actually, I'm not afraid of them. Not scary in that sense... more like thrilled than scared. But then, that's my usual response to things that other people see as scary... rather than want to avoid them, they fascinate me and draw me. They're complex creatures, lots of variables and unknowns, just what I need to get my Ne-xercise

And in return, it would seem that the fact that I'm the one sitting on their desk, taking a bite out of their pie while they're ranting and everyone else is either hiding or stuttering or shrivelling under the gaze of death, so that when they turn to me and say "WELL??" and I say "I think this pie could use some more salt", the combined sense of infuriation and amazement seems to cause a similar effect in the NTJ's in my life to that which they have on me when the opposite applies. I mean when everyone else is laughing and playing with me and I turn to them and they're standing with arms crossed and one raised eyebrow, and I say "Well?" and they shrug enigmatically and walk off... Come baaaaack!!!

It's the particular way in which the INTJ walks off, as opposed to the INFJ... the INFJ always has that edge of disapproval that irritates me, whilst INTJ is smiling to themselves, amused at I-don't-know-what-but-I-intend-to-have-damn-good-fun-finding-out... ahhhhh

That feeling that you sorta don't know which one you want more: them to go away or them to stay, stay, stay! To kill each other or screw each other senseless... hahahahaha... awesome!

I don't personally get so much fun from INFJ's... I find they get hurt too easily and don't really get the whole point of 'the game', they don't enjoy it but see it as something bad that I'm doing to abuse or upset them or something.