I/ENTJ Men and Intimate Relationships

Jen · 08-30-2008, 01:41 PM

Do male I/ENTJ men like a woman who is assertive, confident, somewhat aggressive and organized? What "type" of women if given the choice would you choose to be involved in a romantic relationship with? What "type" would you prefer to marry?

If you're an NTJ male I'd love to hear your thoughts.

IlyaK1986 · 08-30-2008, 01:51 PM

Hmmm...

So long as the girl is brilliant with numbers and beautiful and kind, I like her.

So if you don't meet that standard, you're screwed.

Jen · 08-30-2008, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by IlyaK1986

Hmmm...

So long as the girl is brilliant with numbers and beautiful and kind, I like her.

So if you don't meet that standard, you're screwed.

That might not be a bad thing for some women.

Haight · 08-30-2008, 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jen

Do male I/ENTJ men like a woman who is assertive, confident, somewhat aggressive and organized? What "type" of women if given the choice would you choose to be involved in a romantic relationship with? What "type" would you prefer to marry?

a/ Confident and internally organized, yes. Assertive and aggressive, no.
b/ INTJ nerdy girl.
c/ INTJ nerdy girl.

FDG · 08-30-2008, 03:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jen

Do male I/ENTJ men like a woman who is assertive, confident, somewhat aggressive and organized? What "type" of women if given the choice would you choose to be involved in a romantic relationship with? What "type" would you prefer to marry?

If you're an NTJ male I'd love to hear your thoughts.

1) Uhm, no, no. I don't really think I would fare well with a woman that possesses this type of qualities, we would not be complementary. This said, I don't even dislike them - actually, confident and organized are totally OKAY, but aggressive and assertive are no-no.

2) The girls I've liked were usually a bit shyer than me and feeling types. Mainly ISFJs and INFPs. I've never found myself attracted to very extraverted women (keep in mind that I score around 99 on extraversion, there are some ENTjs that are more introverted than me).

3) Same as above, my preferences wouldn't change for marriage.

EffEmDoubleyou · 08-30-2008, 05:45 PM

I would enjoy an assertive woman, because I'm not that assertive. Someone who is a doer, not a talker. But I'm very organized, so she doesn't have to be that...I'd prefer if she were a little spontaneous to balance me and get me to do some spontaneous things myself.

BlackOp · 08-30-2008, 06:01 PM

Extroverted, accountable and a sharp wit. No unwarranted disruptions to the flow.... INTJs dont really want/need to date themselves. They have to do what they say they are going to do....and find us amazing.

Which we are.

6.4 · 08-31-2008, 12:47 AM

I'm only attracted to strong women, especially if they're more extraverted than me but I think I'll probably end up with an introvert as I don't think I'm as compatible with extraverted women as I'd like to be. Assertive women? I'm not sure I've ever thought about it but a girl can't be too assertive with me or they're out the door and cut off forever I can't be bothered to deal with it.

Intelligence is essential and I don't want to sit on the grass and stare at the sky with a girl having a picnic and all that bullshit, I want her to run with me, head on, into a train for laughs. Someone who can pick me up when I fall and vice versa; basically an equal who helps me become bigger and better and vice versa. My ideal girl comes close to Patricia Arquette in True Romance.

phoenix13 · 08-31-2008, 02:43 AM

Hahaha! Oh my... so what is this fear of assertiveness? An assertive woman knows what she wants and will tell you. She's honest. What's the problem?

Frank · 08-31-2008, 02:53 AM

Only definite criteria is she must be an N. Makes communication easier and also more interesting. Just don't piss off a female infj. Not fun.

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IlyaK1986 Banned Join Date: Aug 2008 Type: ENTJ Posts: 394	Hmmm... So long as the girl is brilliant with numbers and beautiful and kind, I like her. So if you don't meet that standard, you're screwed.

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6.4 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Type: INTJ Location: ldn Posts: 14	I'm only attracted to strong women, especially if they're more extraverted than me but I think I'll probably end up with an introvert as I don't think I'm as compatible with extraverted women as I'd like to be. Assertive women? I'm not sure I've ever thought about it but a girl can't be too assertive with me or they're out the door and cut off forever I can't be bothered to deal with it. Intelligence is essential and I don't want to sit on the grass and stare at the sky with a girl having a picnic and all that bullshit, I want her to run with me, head on, into a train for laughs. Someone who can pick me up when I fall and vice versa; basically an equal who helps me become bigger and better and vice versa. My ideal girl comes close to Patricia Arquette in True Romance.

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Frank Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Type: eNTJ Posts: 334	Only definite criteria is she must be an N. Makes communication easier and also more interesting. Just don't piss off a female infj. Not fun.