A question for all the INTx ladies...

[Angry Ayrab]

Well the INFJ's can answer this too, but how often do you get hit on? I am not talking about the drunk frat boy saying you look cute, but some seriously cool guys that can look into you and tell how cool you really are inside.

I personally ditch the crazy ESFP, because I can tell they have been around the block more than once and go after the more low key intuitive girls. No offense ESFPs... you guys are smoking hot but I hate Extroverts and I can't talk with sensors for more than an hour before my brain starts to hurt.

[CaptainChick]

I think you meant to write "I'd".

[Angry Ayrab]

Originally Posted by CaptainChick

I think you meant to write "I'd".

aww, your just bitter because your an ENFP and most guys are intimidated by you and also think you have been around the block, and that you are way out of their league so they never ask you out and thus you really haven't been around the block that many times... and so on and so forth.

Go wallow somewhere else you bitter ENFP, I despise your kind (J/K).

I hope run-ons are ok and that sarcasm really can be inferred over the internet... but alas those are just hopes so we must add the disclaimer (J/K).

[Trinity]

Um... irl (excluding the pissed idiots that get shot down in a barrage of sarcasm) it's rare.

I tend to give off the "I'm-not-a-blond-bimbo-who's-gonna-fall-for-a-cheap-line-vibe" which can be intimidating, ironically the womenz hit on me for the same reason

[Angry Ayrab]

Originally Posted by Trinity

Um... irl (excluding the pissed idiots that get shot down in a barrage of sarcasm) it's rare.

I tend to give off the "I'm-not-a-blond-bimbo-who's-gonna-fall-for-a-cheap-line-vibe" which can be intimidating, ironically the womenz hit on me for the same reason

Do they really just not approach, or do you push them away after they do? Also, do you judge people too quickly and label them as idiots before they have a chance to show the real them... I got that from my INFJ, but persistance was key.

[CaptainChick]

Originally Posted by Angry Ayrab

aww, your just bitter because your an ENFP and most guys are intimidated by you and also think you have been around the block, and that you are way out of their league so they never ask you out and thus you really haven't been around the block that many times... and so on and so forth.

Go wallow somewhere else you bitter ENFP, I despise your kind (J/K).

I hope run-ons are ok and that sarcasm really can be inferred over the internet... but alas those are just hopes so we must add the disclaimer (J/K).

Bitch, I was trying to hook you up, your OP is unclear because of it, (the typo).

Oh, and you're like, totally, like, projecting dick.

[CaptainChick]

Originally Posted by Angry Ayrab

Do they really just not approach, or do you push them away after they do? Also, do you judge people too quickly and label them as idiots before they have a chance to show the real them... I got that from my INFJ, but persistance was key.

If I were "your" INFJ and I found out you wrote this thread.... wow, I'd be steaming!!!

I take it "your" INFJ girl is not for keeps.

[Angry Ayrab]

LMAOFF I love Captain chick... your the uber cool badass that everyone wants to be. Also, I hope she doesn't read this... oh shit.

Originally Posted by CaptainChick

Bitch, I was trying to hook you up, your OP is unclear because of it, (the typo).

Oh, and you're like, totally, like, projecting dick.

DISCLAIMER: NO DICK PROJECTION INTENDED.

[Didums]

Get a room you two

[Trinity]

Originally Posted by Angry Ayrab

Do they really just not approach, or do you push them away after they do? Also, do you judge people too quickly and label them as idiots before they have a chance to show the real them... I got that from my INFJ, but persistance was key.

Hmm, I kind of struggle with this and can judge quickly. I don’t get approached very often though. This is something I wrote last night after a shitty day (rare thing), it’s quite personal so may not cover any other INTJ’s but it’s how I feel about relationships.


So deep down in a place that I don’t want to acknowledge is something hidden that I know is the honest truth how I feel despite my logical brain saying I shouldn’t. Deep, deep down where no one is allowed is a part of me that believes I have nothing to offer a guy, I don’t mean that in a self deprecating way, I don’t have a problem with self loathing I just don’t know who would be interested in me or why cause I don’t fit the stereotype model of what we’re told a female should be.

I trust my Ni to a fault, 90% of guys I meet are dismissed in 5 minutes, they can be handsome, they can be intelligent, they can be witty, honourable, gentle or kind, even a delightful combination of a few, but I can see the problems instinctively, I’ve tested ignoring my intuition with bad results, it’s proved to be valuable foresight that should be respected and trusted. So they’re dismissed.

What happens when I meet a guy who fits the 10%? I don’t think I have anything to offer him. If he was interested in me, like the real me, I’d have to ask what’s wrong with him? I don’t think/feel that I can be myself, my over analysing kicks in and starts questioning who I am and what he’d want, am I not girly enough, am I too independent, am I too... just me.


Yeesh, that’s too much information!