[MBTI General] What are those bitches in the NF private forum whining about now?

[Salomé]

You can't get me in here.

 

[blanclait]

i don't think they are bad at all. i mean the thread "what do you hate and love about nt," instead of just being hate. etc etc...

Besides, their hatred thread on NT's is quite small compare to ours.
And I feel more like its just more of the "few NF members" leading the hatred on the NT's.

therefore i think we shouldn't be so harsh on them. i can't even imagine what this will provoke those "few members" to do... -_-; NF section feels more and more like a foreign country these days

 

[Jack Flak]

I appreciate both sides of this issue, and therefore must remain neutral. We have the Feeling Primaries who are adamant about their ideas of honor, and no one can say that's unjustified. Yet we have Intuition Primaries who are humorous. I am torn.

 

[Salomé]

Yeah. I was talking about this thread.

I wanted to post in there to wind them up but couldn't.

 

[Synarch]

Sometimes NF's remind me of the girls on the playground making sure everyone was being nice.

 

[Jack Flak]

Sometimes NF's remind me of the girls on the playground making sure everyone was being nice.

ENFJ/ESFJ/ENFP, probably in order of likelyhood to do that.

 

[Edgar]

I'm tired of the humans referring to the females of their kind as "bitch".

I'm here to take the word back.

 

[Salomé]

^ STFU, ho!

 

[Synarch]

The thing I don't get is taking words seriously. There are two parts to any experience, the experience itself and your reaction. If someone sounds like a cretin, that's on them. I may publicly notify them of their transgression by shaming them publicly, but I will not attempt to create more rules or modes of social control.

 

[Totenkindly]

NF's are remind me of the girls on the playground making sure everyone was being nice.

fixed.

 

[Totenkindly]

The thing I don't get is taking words seriously. There are two parts to any experience, the experience itself and your reaction. If someone sounds like a cretin, that's on them. I may publicly notify them of their transgression by shaming them publicly, but I will not attempt to create more rules or modes of social control.

In general, that's my natural approach.... but what do you do, then, if someone refuses to rein themselves in, and they've actively hurting others?

Typical NT "everyone fends for themselves" doesn't work for other types nearly as well; some people WILL get victimized. And maybe you can just do the good ol' NT-"detachamundo" trick... but NFs tend to be horribly empathetic and can't disconnect or draw boundaries there.

 

[mippus]

I wonder if this use of "bitch" is something that also exists in other languages. The commonness of it, I mean. I see no equivalent whatsoever in Dutch...

 

[Salomé]

OMG! Are we actually talking about this now?
What have I done?
What have I done?

Jennifer, you are waaay too well-balanced to be INTP.

 

[mippus]

So INTP's have to be antisocial, neurotic and selfcentered?

 

[Kora]

I wonder if this use of "bitch" is something that also exists in other languages. The commonness of it, I mean. I see no equivalent whatsoever in Dutch...

In Spanish yes. Literally.

 

[mippus]

And is it considered to be offensive in Spanish?
In Dutch the literal version would be awfully offensive. I am curious to know why people are willing to accept it in English...

 

[Synarch]

In general, that's my natural approach.... but what do you do, then, if someone refuses to rein themselves in, and they've actively hurting others?

Typical NT "everyone fends for themselves" doesn't work for other types nearly as well; some people WILL get victimized. And maybe you can just do the good ol' NT-"detachamundo" trick... but NFs tend to be horribly empathetic and can't disconnect or draw boundaries there.

If someone is actively hurting others (you can tell), I will resolve the problem. You cannot argue with rabid dogs.

This is so rare that it almost never happens. People usually get the idea if you chastise them severely enough and quickly enough.

 

[Totenkindly]

OMG! Are we actually talking about this now?
What have I done?
What have I done?

Jennifer, you are waaay too well-balanced to be INTP.

That's what I've heard.

Maybe I need to geT cRAzY!!!!!

If someone is actively hurting others (you can tell), I will resolve the problem. You cannot argue with rabid dogs. This is so rare that it almost never happens. People usually get the idea if you chastise them severely enough and quickly enough.

Really?

Maybe we should make you a mod for a day.

I can only see the net results being positive in SOME way.

In Spanish yes. Literally.

I thought in Spanish it was "Beech."

 

[Salomé]

So INTP's have to be antisocial, neurotic and selfcentered?

They don't have to be....but it helps.

 

[Jack Flak]

They don't have to be....but it helps.

I say asocial and non-centered. Aloof, if you will.