How can I tell if an ENFP is into me?

ed111 · 10-10-2008, 04:32 PM

I'm very attracted to an ENFP female, and I'm wondering firstly if she realises this and secondly if so, is she flirting with me? How perceptive are ENFPs at picking up signs of attraction from others, and typically how do you flirt?

BerberElla · 10-10-2008, 04:37 PM

If an ENFP is into you you can't mistake it, I don't know any type who hunts their prey aswell as the ENFP. What they want they get, I've never been as pursued as when an ENFP fancied me, nor as swept off my feet.

I think that's the same with most ENFP's.

I'm pretty oblivious to signs of attraction from men, but I wasn't allowed to be oblivious to the ENFP.

Ah what fun that was lol.

mlittrell · 10-10-2008, 04:40 PM

i pretty much never realize it when people are into me lol. but, like stated above, if an ENFP is into someone, watch out.

PinkIceTD · 10-10-2008, 04:54 PM

I think ENFP females are pretty aware if someone is into them. I am.

BUt yeah if she's into you, you will def know it.

Angry Ayrab · 10-10-2008, 05:59 PM

You would have to smack me in the face and say I am into you.

Clownmaster · 10-10-2008, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by mlittrell

i pretty much never realize it when people are into me lol. but, like stated above, if an ENFP is into someone, watch out.

QFT

For being so great at reading people, I have a lot of trouble judging how into me somebody is. I can know that they like me a lot, but I can't decipher if its romance or not unless its blatantly obvious.

Awesomecakes · 10-10-2008, 06:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BerberElla

If an ENFP is into you you can't mistake it, I don't know any type who hunts their prey aswell as the ENFP. What they want they get, I've never been as pursued as when an ENFP fancied me, nor as swept off my feet.

I think that's the same with most ENFP's.

Ain't it the truth

When I am in pursuit I will let it be known. Charming words and kind gestures. Even more so than usual. I will go out of my way for the catch. I usually get what I am after

Also, I am definitely aware when someone is interested in me 100%.

SillyGoose · 10-10-2008, 06:09 PM

Yeah, pretty much all of the above. No idea when someone is into me, in thaaaat

way.

And "is she flirting with me?" that one is a toughie. I've been told that I flirt with everyone. I know that I do tend to withdraw when I like someone, that's my way of flirting I guess

ed111 · 10-10-2008, 06:25 PM

She has told me she likes me but I'm not sure how to interpret that, I think it was meant more in a respectful way. I haven't been overt in flirting with her at all: I've just shown interest in her occasionally, tried to be funny (she laughs at my jokes). I have noticed that when I did imply she was quite clever she seemed to be really pleased (I was a little suprised at her response and how excited she became).

Angry Ayrab · 10-10-2008, 06:30 PM

Just do it, ask her for a cup of joe or a bagel. Worst case scenario is a flaky no.

10-10-2008, 04:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
ed111 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Type: INTJ Location: UK Posts: 323	How can I tell if an ENFP is into me? I'm very attracted to an ENFP female, and I'm wondering firstly if she realises this and secondly if so, is she flirting with me? How perceptive are ENFPs at picking up signs of attraction from others, and typically how do you flirt?

10-10-2008, 04:37 PM	#2 (permalink)
BerberElla Toxic Join Date: Sep 2008 Type: enfp Location: The land of marmite and tea Posts: 1,585	If an ENFP is into you you can't mistake it, I don't know any type who hunts their prey aswell as the ENFP. What they want they get, I've never been as pursued as when an ENFP fancied me, nor as swept off my feet. I think that's the same with most ENFP's. I'm pretty oblivious to signs of attraction from men, but I wasn't allowed to be oblivious to the ENFP. Ah what fun that was lol. __________________ 'Religions are like farts. Your own one smells okay, but everyone elses stinks' 7w8

10-10-2008, 04:40 PM	#3 (permalink)
mlittrell Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Type: ENFP Location: New Jersey Posts: 1,389	i pretty much never realize it when people are into me lol. but, like stated above, if an ENFP is into someone, watch out. __________________ "Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress. " "You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty." "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." Mahatma Gandhi Enneagram: 9w1

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Angry Ayrab Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Type: ENFP Location: tucson Posts: 619	You would have to smack me in the face and say I am into you. __________________ http://badges.mypersonality.info/badge/0/7/79928.png

10-10-2008, 06:09 PM	#8 (permalink)
SillyGoose Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Type: EXXP Location: VA baby! Posts: 254	Yeah, pretty much all of the above. No idea when someone is into me, in thaaaat way. And "is she flirting with me?" that one is a toughie. I've been told that I flirt with everyone. I know that I do tend to withdraw when I like someone, that's my way of flirting I guess __________________ "My mom told me there was a weirdo on every bus, but I never could find him." Emo Phillips

10-10-2008, 04:54 PM	#4 (permalink)
PinkIceTD Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Type: ENFP Location: NC female Posts: 291	I think ENFP females are pretty aware if someone is into them. I am. BUt yeah if she's into you, you will def know it.

10-10-2008, 06:25 PM	#9 (permalink)
ed111 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Type: INTJ Location: UK Posts: 323	She has told me she likes me but I'm not sure how to interpret that, I think it was meant more in a respectful way. I haven't been overt in flirting with her at all: I've just shown interest in her occasionally, tried to be funny (she laughs at my jokes). I have noticed that when I did imply she was quite clever she seemed to be really pleased (I was a little suprised at her response and how excited she became).

10-10-2008, 06:30 PM	#10 (permalink)
Angry Ayrab Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Type: ENFP Location: tucson Posts: 619	Just do it, ask her for a cup of joe or a bagel. Worst case scenario is a flaky no. __________________ http://badges.mypersonality.info/badge/0/7/79928.png

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