ENFP's and Social Anxiety/Shyness...

[Lady X]

yeah!! totally...and...it's only if i really like them too i think...because i don't always care if i come off weird...i don't think?? maybe i do...shit i don't know!! haha

but you're right...there are times...or certain people that i do feel...safe..(is that the right word??) to be open with and then that's fine...i'll do the back and forth..and open up...but i think i have to be pretty certain they will relate and accept...cuz yeah i guess a fear of being judged or something....interesting...love how other enfp's make me realize stuff! pretty cool!

[LeonardoLestat]

Originally Posted by soleil

Was wondering if other ENFP's experience this? The thing with me is if I'm comfortable around my environment then all that shyness and anxiety is out the window, but if the energy isn't flowing I become extremely introverted and uncomfortable. It's weird because I would say I'm 50/50 in the extroversion/introversion department. The ENFP description suits me 100%, but I tend to become anxious in certain social settings.

I have that too. Anyone in his right mind I think does.

But when extroverts are comfortable, they easily get hyper. And when they're uncomfortable, it's just a matter of time before an 'explosion of energy' happens -- in any way.