Top 3 reasons for why NFs suck...

[cafe]

1.) Take EVERYTHING personally
2.) Can read vibes, but cannot always interpret them correctly
3.) Take offense on behalf of loved ones and friends too easily and go into protector mode with violence

[Shimpei]

Originally Posted by cafe

1.) Take EVERYTHING personally
2.) Can read vibes, but cannot always interpret them correctly
3.) Take offense on behalf of loved ones and friends too easily and go into protector mode with violence

Basically the same as my three items.

[toonia]

Originally Posted by Uberfuhrer

They're too afraid to show a little self-pride.

Have you ever thought about what happens when you do?

Originally Posted by Uberfuhrer

They're so politically correct and worried about offending others.

I can see why you might think that, and I'm sure you have valid reasons for that conclusion. It may be that NFs are willing to forgo PC when the greater good is served. However, I could be completely wrong and should just listen to you.

Originally Posted by Uberfuhrer

They think NTs are cold and evil.

They're not cold and evil, just emotionally and morally challenged.

[cafe]

Originally Posted by Shimpei

Basically the same as my three items.

You know us well and interpret what you see correctly. Much better than uberguy.

[Varelse]

Originally Posted by cafe

3.) Take offense on behalf of loved ones and friends too easily and go into protector mode with violence

You are absolutely correct.

I've had to unleash on Elwin sometimes.

[KMCE]

To a self-identified NF.

1. Think motive is more important than action. e.g. after watching the news about Asian Tsunami someone thinks she is a good person because she wrote some sympathetic words in her blog and burned a pixel candle. Her dad donated to Red Cross and he was hypocritical and did that for tax reasons.

2. Put too much pressure on herself. e.g. try to please and charm everyone while secretly feel bad about herself for her insincerity. The resentment built up and blew up. Blame herself needlessly for her (extremely) good characters.

3. Do not listen to reasons if she believed in something. e.g. from the tarot cards to the Buddha Boy... it could be anything imaginable and unimaginable.

[Usehername]

1. blinded by people's "goodness" when their "badness" is currently overshadowing and obviously needs attention

2. makes everything personal

3. sometimes emotionally suffocating to people around them

[Uberfuhrer]

Originally Posted by toonia

I can see why you might think that, and I'm sure you have valid reasons for that conclusion. It may be that NFs are willing to forgo PC when the greater good is served. However, I could be completely wrong and should just listen to you.

That would make the world a much better place for you, and especially for me!

[faith]

As Usehername indicated...

We refuse to overlook the good in people, even when they come in packages like Uberfuhrer.

[Lookin4theBestNU]

Top 3 reasons other NFs suck:
1. I know you didn't ask for my help but you are going to get it anyway!
2. I think you suck. I'd like you to go away. I just don't know how to tell you without being "mean". I know I will just avoid you instead of saying it.
3. Poke! What will he do this time? Poke....Yes that got her going! Poke...hmmmm that didn't work. Poke-nudge-Poke Now that was a great reaction it was worth the wait!............... HEY!!! Stop picking on me back-JERK!