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(Everyone is welcome to reply -- however I felt that this topic mostly pertains to NFs, so the Idyllic is my subsection of preference where the placement of this topic is concerned)
Here's a question I asked an INFJ friend on MSN recently: "Is accurately predicting something the same thing as not being surprised when that something comes to pass?" To which he replied: "Yes and no. There's conscious and subconscious prediction, with the latter category including the infamous line "I knew he was going to do that." This view is something that I share. Basically, there are the following two categories: a. Conscious, active prediction, let's say... "prophecy": "This is what he's going to do." Leads to "being proven right" or the opposite in the case of being inaccurate. In conscious control of the doer, more externally expressed than internally, "explosive". Can bring about motion. b. Unconscious, passive prediction, "hunch". "I knew he was going to do that," or "I'm not surprised that he did that." Leads to non-surprise, perceived as affirmation. Or, again, possibly the opposite. Not noticable by the doer (unconscious), more internally expressed than externally, "calmly builds up". Doesn't really induce motion. In both cases, insight into the opposing side's perceived thought processes play a large role. Anyway, my personal feeling is that I do the "unconscious" type of prediction more, though not exclusively so. I find that "conscious" prediction is notably shrouded in mist and as such it's not very prominent most of the time. It also seems that the two assist each other -- usage of one eventually helps the other become clearer in the mind's eye, and so the "doer" also gains confidence regarding the usage of both faculties. If there's one thing common to both though, it's that they are slow to manifest! :) I hope this post made sense. I'm truly not sure. I am looking forward to reading your replies and learning about your perspectives.
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I'm really not sure if I understand or buy it but, for the sake of conversation I will humor you. I would say that either way I keep both predictions to myself. I rarely let people in on my hunches/prophecies because there isn't anything to back them up, which is what a lot of people want. I probably experience the unconscious more because I rarely make a conscious effort to try and predict. Normally they just come to my mind spontaneously during contemplation and then sooner or later it is fulfilled.
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I came up with a wild theory on how survival instincts and intuition come into play, how they're manifested and it ties a bit of Darwinism into the whole thing.
I'm not saying any of it's right, as it was just something I came up with, and to be honest I haven't bothered to think about it again. It could be correct in some ways or way off base, but I don't really worry about it either way and I don't live by the idea either. Just figured it kinda fit the topic so I'd share it ![]() Quote:
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wedekit: Thanks for humoring me -- and it seems we have a similar outlook. I never gave much thought to why I don't usually share my conscious predictions, but it's probably because I need to make sure before rattling my bone-box! and I usually can't do that.
Ender: An interesting read. I'm not quite sure about the connection with survival (of course keeping in mind the context of your post), but I can see the relationship between memory-pattern recongnition and intuition/prediction. After all, there are no truly baseless predictions. Memories and emerging patterns provide the foundation. Just in case an internal or external force demands the reasoning!
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All it takes is for one mis-prediction and people start doubting your abilities. So I usually make none. The only times I can remember making a conscious prediction is when people ask my opinion on someone they like or something like that. I'm usually dead on too.
The unconscious ones are tricky now that I think about it. It usually comes to me as a random thought that I never really think over, and then it happens and I suddenly remember that I called it. Maybe conscious prophecies are just refined unconscious ones.
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Theres those who learn to go by those instincts and theres those who earn a Darwin award. As I said tho I more or less just play around with theories like this. It's not something I seriously consider.
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I rarely am surprised by an outcome... and sometimes I get a real thrill out of being surprised (if it's not something really bad for me), if it tells me something new about the person. But I don't like to "prophesy" in the sense that I'm 100% sure. All I can say is that, with my current understanding of everything involved, I can see where things will go, what people will do, and what the outcome is. But since I do know my knowledge is imperfect, then I can't 100% sure say I know the outcome. |
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Part of it might also be that I'm open to possibilties...I can see things going different ways, so I don't say "this will happen x way".
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Well, I can also see all the paths, but judging by the person (since mine usually involve people) I can decide on their "path-of-best-fit". I am able to see all the possible variables and make my own judgment to which ones will be used by a particular person. If that makes sense...
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Jennifer: You put it well... even though I can't say I am that much of an adept, yet. And welcome to the not-never-100%-sure club!
wedekit: My turn... ;) and yes, that's how it usually "works" with me as well, though I suppose it looks more impressive in written word than reality (That's why we're here, I guess). And for your information, my INFJ friend used a similar wording as you did, to describe the same thing -- before your response, even. I quote: Quote:
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