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Old 11-06-2007, 11:36 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Hate an ENFJ? Tell us why!

For real serious. We can handle it.

Substitute, you are not allowed to say ANYTHING!
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Old 11-06-2007, 11:51 AM   #2 (permalink)
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pssh impossible! no one hates an enfj!!
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Old 11-06-2007, 11:53 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I know right? But tragically, somewhere out in the world, there are ENFJs daring to make enemies.

I have my own theory as to why this is so, but I'll withhold until there are more comments.
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Old 11-06-2007, 12:06 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I don't think this thread will end up being as as the ENFP one! We can handle it.
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I have a problem with ENFJ's neglect of their own needs. It is OK to want something. My question to you is, "what do you want?". Because I have observed ENFJ's give so much more than they are given.
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I don't think this thread will end up being as as the ENFP one! We can handle it.
I think you're right Lookin4. Somehow I think this thread will definately not be as light and fluffy.
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Old 11-06-2007, 01:01 PM   #7 (permalink)
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I have a problem with ENFJ's neglect of their own needs. It is OK to want something. My question to you is, "what do you want?". Because I have observed ENFJ's give so much more than they are given.

Many times I've said exactly what I want. In clear distinct english and still the person or persons seem to not hear me. Example: Please would you do a, c, d, e, f - z but for the love of goodness please don't do b. The person does b and then says tome if I ask why they did it what's wrong with you?

I say what I want and people ignore it. I'm not unclear altho it's true I think..does this sound unreasonable or bossy or whatever. When I deliver a message about what I want or how I feel you can believe it's been thought about. How can I ask for what I want and get it without imposing on someone elses freedoms or wants. (and the down side...when I get sick of doing that and don't think about the other persons feelings they get upset and huffy and say you're not thinking about ME!
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Old 11-06-2007, 02:48 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Some ENFJ comments that have annoyed me:

"You need to listen to me because I'm better with people and have read the Bible more than you."

Telling me that I need to obey my parents in all cases, even if I'm risking my life in the process. (Yes, really.)

And a general attitude of moral superiority because "people like me."
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It's a real pain in the ass to show them that yes you really do give a shit, 100 fucking %.
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It's a real pain in the ass to show them that yes you really do give a shit, 100 fucking %.
True.

Especially when they're going for the whole romantic, writing poems thing and I'm sitting there going....
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