From observation of people on this forum, I have seen several members who seem to have almost taught themselves to use Fe to a much greater degree than they probably naturally would use it. I'll admit to having taught myself to be a lot nicer and more diplomatic than I was when younger, because it gets me my way and wins arguments more frequently.
I was just wondering about others' inputs-
why would you develop a trait that you would not naturally use as much?
what are the benefits of this?
does it ever feel like it was a learned, as opposed to natural, trait?