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    Default Which Type Is Hardest to get along with?

    I'm just curious, which type have you had problems getting along with? Do you think it has to do with the combination of your type and that specific type or just that person in particular?

    I think ENTPs are one of the most charming and I REALLY like them for so many reasons. But I don't know how to handle it when they go into confrontational mode (they are great debaters). My cousin for example if I give her back the banter she's giving, she gets angry.
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    Probably ESTPs and to a lesser extent ESFPs. I'm not sure why, I think I've just been around a lot of poorly developed versions of these types. It could be my type influencing this (whatever type I happen to be). Undeveloped ExFJs sometimes bother me, but to a much lesser extent than Se doms.
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    Type alone without taking enneagram into account - ENTJ/P's. I usually get an overwhelming urge to set them on fire. Sometimes that urge happens quickly, sometimes it takes longer. But it's inevitable.
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    For me- on and off depending- 6s.

    I also tend to stay away from image types in general because... they give me the willies.

    Probably MBTI... ENFJs and INFJs- but thats a 'depending' thing too. Also. I have a hard time with SJ types- especially if they are 9w1 or 1w9- if and ONLY if, they are in charge of me. Having to replicte things a certain way... gets me all disoriented with anxiety. Having there ALWAYS be a right and wrong way to do... tasks where I personally feel it DOESNT MATTER- sets me off.

    But really. I get along with most people. Generally. I dont try NOT to get along with people- and usually if I dislike someone- I try not to let it personally effect them because thats not fair. I just try to stay away. It takes a lot for me to really dislike someone though

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    INTP's are statistically speaking the most difficult type for me to get along with. ENTP's are very close behind.
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    That's interesting about the SJ thing. Very well said. I love SJs but I've worked in an office setting and it was actually HARD because all of them had a thousand rules that MUST be followed. I thought I liked rules until then. Outside of work, I really love them though and get along well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    Type alone without taking enneagram into account - ENTJ/P's. I usually get an overwhelming urge to set them on fire. Sometimes that urge happens quickly, sometimes it takes longer. But it's inevitable.
    Feel that about INTJs on occasion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hard View Post
    INTP's are statistically speaking the most difficult type for me to get along with. ENTP's are very close behind.
    All my ENFJs I know are my closest people.
    The nature of my sine is 23.4 at best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frosty View Post
    For me- on and off depending- 6s.

    I also tend to stay away from image types in general because... they give me the willies.

    Probably MBTI... ENFJs and INFJs- but thats a 'depending' thing too. Also. I have a hard time with SJ types- especially if they are 9w1 or 1w9- if and ONLY if, they are in charge of me. Having to replicte things a certain way... gets me all disoriented with anxiety. Having there ALWAYS be a right and wrong way to do... tasks where I personally feel it DOESNT MATTER- sets me off.

    But really. I get along with most people. Generally. I dont try NOT to get along with people- and usually if I dislike someone- I try not to let it personally effect them because thats not fair. I just try to stay away. It takes a lot for me to really dislike someone though
    Awwww, you don't get along with INFJs usually?!
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    I cannot say much for MBTI besides a relative tested as ISTP and I cannot get along with them.
    I struggle with 8's in enneagram.

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