[Other/Multiple Temperaments] Which Type Is Hardest to get along with?

[ChocTiramisu]

I'm just curious, which type have you had problems getting along with? Do you think it has to do with the combination of your type and that specific type or just that person in particular?

I think ENTPs are one of the most charming and I REALLY like them for so many reasons. But I don't know how to handle it when they go into confrontational mode (they are great debaters). My cousin for example if I give her back the banter she's giving, she gets angry.

 

[RadicalDoubt]

Probably ESTPs and to a lesser extent ESFPs. I'm not sure why, I think I've just been around a lot of poorly developed versions of these types. It could be my type influencing this (whatever type I happen to be). Undeveloped ExFJs sometimes bother me, but to a much lesser extent than Se doms.

 

[ceecee]

Type alone without taking enneagram into account - ENTJ/P's. I usually get an overwhelming urge to set them on fire. Sometimes that urge happens quickly, sometimes it takes longer. But it's inevitable.

 

[Frosty]

For me- on and off depending- 6s.

I also tend to stay away from image types in general because... they give me the willies.

Probably MBTI... ENFJs and INFJs- but thats a 'depending' thing too. Also. I have a hard time with SJ types- especially if they are 9w1 or 1w9- if and ONLY if, they are in charge of me. Having to replicte things a certain way... gets me all disoriented with anxiety. Having there ALWAYS be a right and wrong way to do... tasks where I personally feel it DOESNT MATTER- sets me off.

But really. I get along with most people. Generally. I dont try NOT to get along with people- and usually if I dislike someone- I try not to let it personally effect them because thats not fair. I just try to stay away. It takes a lot for me to really dislike someone though

 

[á´…eparted]

INTP's are statistically speaking the most difficult type for me to get along with. ENTP's are very close behind.

 

[ChocTiramisu]

That's interesting about the SJ thing. Very well said. I love SJs but I've worked in an office setting and it was actually HARD because all of them had a thousand rules that MUST be followed. I thought I liked rules until then. Outside of work, I really love them though and get along well.

 

[EnnisPreit]

Type alone without taking enneagram into account - ENTJ/P's. I usually get an overwhelming urge to set them on fire. Sometimes that urge happens quickly, sometimes it takes longer. But it's inevitable.

Feel that about INTJs on occasion.

 

[EnnisPreit]

INTP's are statistically speaking the most difficult type for me to get along with. ENTP's are very close behind.

All my ENFJs I know are my closest people.

 

[Littleclaypot]

For me- on and off depending- 6s.

I also tend to stay away from image types in general because... they give me the willies.

Probably MBTI... ENFJs and INFJs- but thats a 'depending' thing too. Also. I have a hard time with SJ types- especially if they are 9w1 or 1w9- if and ONLY if, they are in charge of me. Having to replicte things a certain way... gets me all disoriented with anxiety. Having there ALWAYS be a right and wrong way to do... tasks where I personally feel it DOESNT MATTER- sets me off.

But really. I get along with most people. Generally. I dont try NOT to get along with people- and usually if I dislike someone- I try not to let it personally effect them because thats not fair. I just try to stay away. It takes a lot for me to really dislike someone though

Awwww, you don't get along with INFJs usually?!

 

[Red Memories]

I cannot say much for MBTI besides a relative tested as ISTP and I cannot get along with them.
I struggle with 8's in enneagram.

 

[thepink-cloakedninja]

I usually get along pretty well with most of the types, though there are individual exceptions.

2 INFPs I know - STOP BLAMING THE WORLD FOR YOUR PROBLEMS AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE!
Other INFP I know - You are the sweetest, wisest, most empathetic being in the world!

2 ISFJs I knew - Why you complain all the time?
Other ISFJs - Such sweetness.

1 ISTJ I know - Why you glare at me all the time? That hurted my feelings.
Like, 10 other ISTJs - You guys are the best. :3

1 ESTP I knew - Stop making me cry.
Other ESTP - Comforted me after ESTP #1 made me cry.

 

[great_bay]

I don't really like the ESTP/ESFP stereotype that personality page describes. They come across as completely dumb in their behavior or have nothing interesting to say. They are moronic in their behavior. I can recognize the same recurring archetype when I see it.

 

[Population: 1]

I definitely have a type or two I have issues with but to point them out is unnecessary. Besides, I'm sure there are individuals within those groups that I could befriend. I've made friends with the unlikeliest of people before.

 

[Ashtart]

ESxx are definitely the hardest type for me to get along.

 

[Coriolis]

SF types. It's not as if I find them bad or nasty people, more like it seems as if we are speaking different languages. It can sometimes be hard to communicate even the most basic of things.

 

[Red Memories]

I usually get along pretty well with most of the types, though there are individual exceptions.

2 INFPs I know - STOP BLAMING THE WORLD FOR YOUR PROBLEMS AND TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE!
Other INFP I know - You are the sweetest, wisest, most empathetic being in the world!

2 ISFJs I knew - Why you complain all the time?
Other ISFJs - Such sweetness.

1 ISTJ I know - Why you glare at me all the time? That hurted my feelings.
Like, 10 other ISTJs - You guys are the best. :3

1 ESTP I knew - Stop making me cry.
Other ESTP - Comforted me after ESTP #1 made me cry.

the ESTP comments XD

 

[thepink-cloakedninja]

the ESTP comments XD

ESTP #2 also tried to teach me some tae kwon do just in case ESTP #1 turned berserk.

 

[EnnisPreit]

SF types. It's not as if I find them bad or nasty people, more like it seems as if we are speaking different languages. It can sometimes be hard to communicate even the most basic of things.

Exactly.

 

[Littleclaypot]

ESTJs think they can push me around until I lunge at them like a spider monkey and scare the living day lights out of them

 

[BlackCat]

I tend to feel the largest disconnect from INFJs, and I think it can be mutually difficult to get along and to understand each other. I also find that ENFPs can be quite irritating and hard to handle at times. That's with enneagram set aside. I can get along with those people just fine as long as they aren't a 6. 6s are usually the people I have the hardest time getting along with, there are a few exceptions but that has been consistent.