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    ^He pronks, too! Magic Poriferan's Avatar
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    I wish I had luring powers... I don't like taking the initiative, but it totally freaks me out when people I'm not interested in takes the initiative on me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    When someone describes themselves in the way you did, then it comes across 3x more intense in real life than the way the person writes it.
    Lolz...back to square run. Warm milk and a rocking chair next to a crackling fireplace.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magic Poriferan View Post
    I wish I had luring powers... I don't like taking the initiative, but it totally freaks me out when people I'm not interested in takes the initiative on me.
    I just realized how much your avatar freaks me the heck out! It's not the picture it's that it moves...ahhhhh!!

    So when someone who you're not interested in takes the initiative (in a romantic or even a friendship way) you freak out.

    You know you're not interested because of a first impression type thing or what?
    for my life is slowed up by thought and the need to understand what I am living.

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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    Lolz...back to square run. Warm milk and a rocking chair next to a crackling fireplace.
    Don't pounce. Bring it up later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    Don't pounce. Bring it up later.
    Wait, wait!

    Am I waiting in vain? What am I waiting on? Is it worth the wait?

    Still relying on my sense of emotional timing, you see?
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    Wait, wait!

    Am I waiting in vain? What am I waiting on? Is it worth the wait?
    I don't know.

    If he's too closed off to ever trust you, then it is in vain. If he does open up, then it's worth it, regardless of type.

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    what if we just knock you down and sit on your chest and stare at you unblinking like a vulture until you comply?

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    what if we just knock you down and sit on your chest and stare at you unblinking like a vulture until you comply?
    Probably results in sex.

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    Sorry just thought of this song...I know wrong thread but...

    From the very first time I rest my eyes on you, "boy",
    My heart says follow t'rough.
    But I know, now, that I'm way down on your line,
    But the waitin' feel is fine:
    So don't treat me like a puppet on a string,
    'Cause I know I have to do my thing.
    Don't talk to me as if you think I'm dumb;
    I wanna know when you're gonna come - soon.
    I don't wanna wait in vain for your love;
    I don't wanna wait in vain for your love;
    I don't wanna wait in vain for your love,
    'Cause if summer is here,
    I'm still waiting there;
    Winter is here,
    And I'm still waiting there.

    Like I said:
    It's been three years since I'm knockin' on your door,
    And I still can knock some more:
    Ooh boy, ooh boy, is it feasible?
    I wanna know now, for I to knock some more.
    Ya see, in life I know there's lots of grief,
    But your love is my relief:
    Tears in my eyes burn - tears in my eyes burn
    While I'm waiting - while I'm waiting for my turn,
    See!

    I don't wanna wait in vain for your love
    for my life is slowed up by thought and the need to understand what I am living.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Littlelostnf View Post
    I just realized how much your avatar freaks me the heck out! It's not the picture it's that it moves...ahhhhh!!


    Look into it. Succumb to it. oooOOOOoooOOoooooo.

    Quote Originally Posted by Littlelostnf View Post
    So when someone who you're not interested in takes the initiative (in a romantic or even a friendship way) you freak out.

    You know you're not interested because of a first impression type thing or what?
    In most cases that someone could advance on me, I've already observed everyone. So I have information to go on to know if I'm interested. I'm very happy if someone I'm interested in advances, but if it's someone I'm not interested in, I sort of sigh in my mind and check a clock.

    However, when someone unfamiliar to me advances, that's already unnerving (I am polite but very distant toward strangers). I don't like being taken aside by people I haven't examined. Once that's happened though, I do try to assess them as fast as I can, and things basically go up or down from there. The less intrigue or endearment that is accomplished in a given amount of time, the more I ask myself "how do I get out of this?". A stranger also has to go much slower than someone I'm already interested in, because I'm still bunkered in and trying to scope them out.

    So a stranger still has better chances than someone I've observered and written off, but they have a tough task, I tell you...
    Go to sleep, iguana.


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