As much as some TJ's want to resist it, you need to use Fe, at least to some degree. Hopefully, you develop it over time and experiences help shape that. I'm not shooting for INFJ levels but my Fe isn't the embarrassment it was when I was younger, either.
I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.
I just seem to have a problem with F(i/e) doms in general. Anybody that is not a perceiver dominant, is going to grind against me.
All F-doms are going to perceive my judging function as criticism. I perceive it as objective, neither good nor bad, while they will interpret it as negative against themselves. => Especially Fi. Fe on the other hand doesn't know what to do because Te will seem cold and ruthless to them. Te wants to talk about facts (I don't like that red dress, Fi will interpret it as, the red dress makes them look ugly or I hate them. because I made them feel bad about themselves). While Fe wants to talk about (well I don't know, I suck with Fe). Haven't found a good example of Fe yet.