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View Poll Results: When choosing a mate, what do you prefer ?

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  • Playmate

    2 8.33%
  • Helpmate

    0 0%
  • Meeting of Minds

    14 58.33%
  • Meeting of Souls

    8 33.33%
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  1. #11

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    If the soul is wrong, I can really dislike the Other. If the mind is at bit thick, I get fed up, if not repelled. If the play is too rough I get put off, but I can miss it, but then it would be no good as a mate. The help can come from outsiders to a greater degree.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jennifer View Post
    oh gee, thanks for spelling out the obvious ....!
    INTP P=12 (I am 11/12) says nothing is ever obvious:

    The Sore Dragon: The Obvious (by R D Laing)

    This might be INXP though ?
    Freud is 80% fraud, all except the E for Ego
    The difference between the Psi Cops (psychiatrists)
    and the Psi Corps (psychologists) is the R for Relationship.


    Perseus

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    mind>soul>play>help

    i always answer these like an NT

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ilah View Post
    For a life mate, I would insist on all of the above. Anything else is just settling.
    Same here.

    If it has to be listed in order, then it is:

    Soulmate
    Mindmate
    Helpmate
    Playmate
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    Play, Mind, Help and Soul.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snail View Post
    souls (NF)
    playmate (SP)
    minds (NT)
    helpmate (SJ)

    I'm not implying that the mate would be in the temperament category listed. It's just an observation about what I would expect each to seek if they were stereotypical.
    Well, it depends on whether Perseus wants to know first instinct or after thinking about it. My gut reaction was right along with your stereotypical choice, Playmate first, but if I stop and think I realize if we're talking a mate for life, then #1 has to be that we share the same faith, because everything else comes out of that. So I go with this..

    1. Soulmate
    2. Playmate
    3. Helpmate
    4. Mindmate

    But like Ilah said, ideally she'd be all of those things.
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    so my prefer order is
    1.Mindmate
    2.Playmate
    3.
    4.
    5.
    6.
    7.
    8.
    9.Soulmate,helpmate
    In no likes experiment.

    that is all

    i dunno what else to say so

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    mindmate
    soulmate
    playmate
    helpmate
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    Mindmate
    Soulmate
    Playmate
    Helpmate
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    Mindmate=Soulmate > Playmate >> Helpmate

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