So I don't know if something was posted like this before but what would you say is the difference between Fi and Fe when it comes to morality?
I also heard people tie Fi to sympathy and Fe to empathy, and then another was like they're both empathetic in different ways.
Also I know as an INFJ I would theoretically have strong Fe, but there are sometimes where I know what I'm feeling because of a certain thing bugged me very much, for example a personal attack on an experience I much shared about with a close friend on my experiences with people and then to mess it all up and it gets me infuriated and I don't need public opinion to tell me that's not something to get upset for.
But yet, there are days where I'll feel others pain without noticing anything like I'll get headache like from a customer having a hard time and actually the part of my head will be pointing or reflecting that where the person is being frustrated with something. Like she will be northwest of me, and the northwestern part of my head will hurt when I'm facing North.
I think I have Ti because I always loved the theory more than the actual process or result of something like for example, Chemistry. I found the theory way more fascinating than seeing the results like in a experiment for a class.
I don't think I have a strong moral compass but I do tend to value women more than men, (I'm a guy) and I have things I would never ever want to do and that is to manipulate others even for selling purposes, I strongly value knowledge that people should always (or most of the time) be fully informed of something before making a decision. I'm highly sensitive to physical touch and I can get hurt by personal attacks.
Although recently, I have been way more easy to put up with people's scoff's or murmurings for little things which I know I have no fault of, rather than the past I used to think almost everything was my fault. But now I also perceive that sometimes I may not care when I should about others, I always remember specific people who put their efforts on me even if I deem them fake and insincere. For example, I bought a pair of expensive noise-cancelling headphones and this lady I could see that she kept stumbling on her words and trying to encourage me to buy it and I could detect lies in it that weren't true about her just trying to connect with me. I came specifically to that store to get the model and my mind was made up, so I didn't care about her persuasion, just wanted to buy the headphones.
Later, she comes to my workplace wearing her store's work shirt and almost gave me an expectant look like I needed to recognize her, but I didn't. I came off cold, and just a few months afterwards this thought came in my head, and I wonder if it really would've mattered to recognize her.
I think I go in and out of these stages of *maybe* Fi and Fe. I never really thought I had to exactly conform myself, except in certain situations just to preserve the peace but never really changing what really were my ideas about things.
For most of all what I feel is anxiousness and tenseness and nothingness so I can't really say I have Fi, but I also really like when people have manners and say hello and smile. I do like a bit of small talk and that can annoy some of my thinking friends, I like short small talk and then transition to deep things. It's kind of weird.