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    Default Finding ESFP's and ESTP attractive?

    Is it normal for an INTP to find these types attractive? INTP's functions are Si and Fe and is is possible they are attractive to theses types?

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    Quote Originally Posted by great_bay View Post
    Is it normal for an INTP to find these types attractive? INTP's functions are Si and Fe and is is possible they are attractive to theses types?
    If you're the slightest bit attracted to these types, then you're probably an IxxJ like myself.

    I was mistyped as INTP for years, and I always thought it was unusual for me to feel such strong attraction to ExxP types.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Studmuffin23 View Post
    If you're the slightest bit attracted to these types, then you're probably an IxxJ like myself.

    I was mistyped as INTP for years, and I always thought it was unusual for me to feel such strong attraction to ExxP types.
    No, I am INTP for sure. My thoery is that INTP may find EXSP's attractive because they activate Se and Fe which is the subconscious functions compared to Ti and Ne.

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    As am INTP who married an ESTP, I did so because whilst I over analyse and can end up doing nothing whilst I ponder the intricacies, she can act without thought and on impulse. It makes for food entertainment, despite the arguments.

    By and large though attraction has nothing to do with type. It is more about personality. Personality is far larger in bredth and depth than type alone.
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    I have noticed many INTJ and ISTJ, as well as ISTP and INTP are attracted by EXTP.

    If some can explain why
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    Quote Originally Posted by great_bay View Post
    Is it normal for an INTP to find these types attractive? INTP's functions are Si and Fe and is is possible they are attractive to theses types?
    It is probably that they are outgoing. And you are not so outgoing... I imagine.

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    I suppose so. I often find Se dominants physically attractive, and notice I have no problems around ESTP women. I'm not sure about ESFPs, because I haven't been around them much, but I'm guessing it's the same. If you like ESxPs, then you'll probably like ENxPs even more.

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    Extroverts are more likely to try and make themselves look appealing to other people, hence you will be more inclined to find them attractive, because they put more effort into appearing attractive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    It is probably that they are outgoing. And you are not so outgoing... I imagine.
    You're too introspective about me.

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