So, said in another way, if you are social dominant you are going to feel this way about groups regardless of what MBTI type you identify with. It is not unusual for Fi to mistake itself for Fe as a result. I am INFP and so dom and relate to what you've written above.
Now, the kicker would be if you identify with social dominance because you're Fe wired. So, in this you need to get away from looking at behaviour to identify type and really study the functions themselves to get a feel for what functions you most identify with. Are you in need of resources? There are some good links here on the forum for that.
And yes, Fe can be cold-to-the-depths-of-hell-frozen-over-solid kind of cold.