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  • Fe dom - yes

    2 9.09%
  • Fe dom - no

    0 0%
  • Fi dom - yes

    2 9.09%
  • Fi dom - no

    3 13.64%
  • Te dom - yes

    0 0%
  • Te dom - no

    1 4.55%
  • Ti dom - yes

    0 0%
  • Ti dom - no

    5 22.73%
  • Ne dom - yes

    0 0%
  • Ne dom - no

    3 13.64%
  • Ni dom - yes

    0 0%
  • Ni dom - no

    6 27.27%
  • Se dom - yes

    0 0%
  • Se dom - no

    0 0%
  • Si dom - yes

    0 0%
  • Si dom - no

    0 0%
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Thread: The Need To Hate

  1. #21
    Wake, See, Sing, Dance Array Cellmold's Avatar
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    Nah I never hate....wait a minute:

    Quote Originally Posted by AffirmitiveAnxiety View Post
    I hate sex, it's scary and weird to me.
    Quote Originally Posted by AffirmitiveAnxiety View Post
    All that teaches you is to hate humanity (which isn't so bad) and how to work on other tills.
    Quote Originally Posted by AffirmitiveAnxiety View Post
    Women don't hate me. A woman might hate me and I might hate a woman, but I won't hate a women because a women is too many to hate over a woman.
    Oh nooo.

    But there's more:

    Quote Originally Posted by AffirmitiveAnxiety View Post
    I hate laughter tracks....
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    I hate myself so much, I really do.
    Quote Originally Posted by AffirmitiveAnxiety View Post

    And I still hate it myself.
    Looks like I hate and have a need to.

    Probably stems from projections in fear of ones own ability to succeed while simultaneously obsessing over neurosis after neurosis under/as well as the premise of attention seeking in order to solve issues in yourself. With one of the bigger problems being that there is real evidence that confirms the hatreds and the issues are stemming from the individual and are wholly that individual's fault.
    "An upsidedown wire heart
    Being sucked into a periscope
    Still the mind is dull
    Like you need another excuse"

    … a theory is primarily a form of insight, i.e. a way of looking
    at the world, and not a form of knowledge of how the world is….
    .. all our different ways of thinking are to be considered as
    different ways of looking at the one reality, each with some
    domain in which it is clear and adequate….
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  2. #22
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    Peace is starvation. Contentment is prison. Synergy is slavery. Tolerance is submission.

    Hell yes, I love hating things. I remember I used to stand up on tables and yell "I hate this!!" and "Carthage must be destroyed!!" yada-yada yammering rhetoric because I desperately desired to unite the people against some (nonexistent) common enemy just as an excuse to cause chaos and revolt. Never worked.

    If you have nothing to oppose, you have no target on which to focus.

  3. #23
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    I don't have strong enough convictions to lead me to hate very much. Deriding, though, isn't off the table.
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  4. #24
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    I don't know. I'd rather be defined by what I love than what I hate. BUT I do have a short fuse and get easily irritated.

    The closest analogy for me would be missing things to feel sad/blue/melancholy about when life is easy and pleasant and sunny. So yeah, I guess it may well be an enneagram thing.

  5. #25
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hard View Post
    Sometimes the need to hate things is a way to purge repressed anger (which I believe is e1's thing?). There's a defense mechanism called displacement- one of the ways it manifests is when we can't bear negative feelings we have towards someone (to acknowledge the feeling threatens our security in some way, it's not 'safe' to feel it), we direct that energy at another source (another person, or ideas, objects, etc).

    I've done this myself, displaced excessive anger/hatred/disgust towards objects as a way to avoid feeling any hostility towards people I'm close to. Once I really, really hated an Amish quilt my ex's mom sent us for Christmas one year- stuff like that. It's clear to me in retrospect- distance makes it a lot easier for me to know who/what the anger was really about- but it wasn't clear to me at the time.
    Reality is a collective hunch. -Lily Tomlin

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    I don't how someone WOULDN'T like people and things, and just be upset, disappointed, and disgusted by absolutely everything. There has to be some good to be found in at least some things.

    I can only honestly say I hate a few people I know. And I would beat the shit out of them if given the opportunity, but I might still feel guilty. I don't know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lil_Red View Post

    I can only honestly say I hate a few people I know. And I would beat the shit out of them if given the opportunity, but I might still feel guilty. I don't know.
    I hate one person. And I certainly would beat the shit out of them, if I had the chance. I know I wouldn't feel guilty. I didn't let go of the hate for this person or forgive and I have no intention of doing so. I do keep it on an apathetic level most of the time so I don't think about it much.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.
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  8. #28
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    Quote Originally Posted by laterlazer View Post
    Nope, more than anything if I feel like I hate something I have to question why I do. But yeah can't relate at all, I don't need to hate stuff.
    This. Exactly this.
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