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  • I'm an extravert, and prefer introverts

    5 14.29%
  • I'm an extravert, and prefer extraverts.

    5 14.29%
  • I'm an introvert, and prefer extraverts.

    9 25.71%
  • I'm an introvert and prefer introverts.

    16 45.71%
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    Default Introverted and Extroverted dating preferences.

    I've been astounded in my recent online dating experiments (ahem, experiences) that majority of people who reach out to me are introverted-- clearly this at least in part because it's computer related, but I still wonder how many introverts are not interested in their own kind and visa versa.

    Vote away! I did not add a "both" option intentionally. Also, I spelled "extrovert" wrong in the poll, if you know how to edit it let me know!
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    introvert-lovin extrovert reporting!

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    Historically, I've dated more extroverts than introverts. I think I tend to be drawn to ambiverted extroverts.
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    I'm an introvert who generally prefers introverts, but I could handle a low-key extrovert (like possibly an ENFJ)... I just can't handle an average or high-end extrovert.

    Friends? Yeah, that part is very cool. But not an LTR... I'd pass out within a week or be hiding in a closet.
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    Extravert (<--- totally legit spelling) who is historically attracted to extraverts. I think I've been shifting my preference lately, I had been in a long relationship with a painfully introverted INFP and am mostly likely now getting out of my push-back phase.

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    Extroverts. They tend to engage me more and can keep up with my energy. I tend to get impatient with introverts and just end up ditching them once the conversation starts to get too mellow.
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    Bring em all on
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    Just wanna add that I've had great relationships with extroverts before. I definitely don't require that a partner be an introvert, but I do tend toward them.
    You hem me in -- behind and before;
    you have laid your hand upon me.
    Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
    too lofty for me to attain.

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    I almost always date people similar to myself.. so introverts, but not always.

    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    Extroverts. They tend to engage me more and can keep up with my energy. I tend to get impatient with introverts and just end up ditching them once the conversation starts to get too mellow.
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    less introverted than me, but not too extroverted either.

    something perfectly in the middle would be nice
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