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  • I'm an extravert, and prefer introverts

    5 14.29%
  • I'm an extravert, and prefer extraverts.

    5 14.29%
  • I'm an introvert, and prefer extraverts.

    9 25.71%
  • I'm an introvert and prefer introverts.

    16 45.71%
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    It depends on whether I'm on an upswing or a downswing. For instance, sometimes I need to expel a lot of energy and an extrovert can handle that a bit better.

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    Also, I'm a pretty low-key extravert, like I don't have that oft mentioned ENFP thing where I need to fight for the spotlight. I'd do fine with a high-energy one if they're content sometimes to run around me in circles while I chill-out. And I'd require an occasionally adventurous introvert.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Evee View Post
    Except you baby.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    Also, I'm a pretty low-key extravert, like I don't have that oft mentioned ENFP thing where I need to fight for the spotlight. I'd do fine with a high-energy one if they're content sometimes to run around me in circles while I chill-out. And I'd require an occasionally adventurous introvert.
    ^ Same. I'm fine with dating introverts when they aren't terribly hermit-like. I've got lots of hermit-like introvert friends, but with BFs I'd have the reverse of @Jennifer's problem and start getting stir-crazy.

    e.g. I have a lovely INFJ friend who some of my other friends think I need to find "the guy version" of, but I'm pretty sure the above scenario would play out almost immediately.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanaynay View Post
    Except you baby.

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    i don't like skanktroverts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    I've got lots of hermit-like introvert friends, but with BFs I'd have the reverse of @Jennifer's problem and start getting stir-crazy.
    Yes, stir-crazy that's the word! This is one of the main problems I encounter even with introverted friends. I typically need a lot more external stimulation than they do.
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    I need an extrovert. I have trouble reading or understanding where introverts are at, and at times getting them to express their thoughts or feelings in detail is worse than pulling teeth. It frustrates me to no end. Friends would be fine, but not a relationship.

    Extroverts end up making me feel like I have "permission" to be myself because they freely share their thoughts and opinions so I can adjust and learn accordingly. We also feedback loop each other to be active. I get bored and antsy if all we do is sit around (talking or not).
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    Introverts. They don't suffocate me, and they still can behave pretty much like extraverts when they get in confidence.
    Since I was a kid I've been looking for the introvert. I felt that extraverts had enough people to feel loved. And I wanted to help introverts like me to feel less alone instead.
    And I couldn't stand all the social life and needs much.

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    I'm an introvert. Had relationships with both introverts & extroverts - so needless to say, I'm attracted to both. I'm inclined to say that I have a higher overall attraction to Thinking vs Feeling types; this preference is more distinct for me than an I/E divide.

    Needless to say, I didn't feel as though any options on the poll were applicable to me.
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