I am trying to identify whether I am INFJ or INFP, I identify strongly with both Ni and Ne, as well as Fe and Fi.
What makes me think I am INFP:
I am good at coming up with new ideas all the time. I also have strong inner values and I live by those values. I value staying true to myself.
I am very non-judgemental and I am very slow to come to form conclusions about people. Whenever someone does something "bad", instead of jumping to conclusions that they are bad people immediately, I will try to analyze what is the reason behind their actions. I am also always looking for the beauty in everyone around me.
Even when someone is perceived as "bad" by everyone, I believe there are still some good points about that person.
What makes me think I am INFJ:
I was buying food from this lady yesterday, and I saw a customer being rude toward her. I immediately felt angry with that customer for being rude toward her, and I felt sad that the lady has to endure that type of treatment. But at the same time, I have difficulty reacting on the spot, I feel really angry with that customer for being rude toward the lady and I want to tell her off but I don't know why, I just have difficulty reacting on the spot in this situation. I am feeling upset over the entire incident that I witnessed yet at the same time instinctual reaction to this situation is to "freeze" at the spot and do nothing. This makes me doubt that I am INFP, because INFP with Fi would have reacted according to their feelings, they would just tell off that customer for being rude toward the lady.
My career decisions is also largely influenced by my family.
I have difficulty ignoring their opinions when it comes to my career choices. I don't get along with my family and I hate them so much, yet at the same time, I have lots of difficulty ignoring their opinions when it comes to my career choices.
I also tend to care A LOT about what people think about me. Whenever people hate me, I start hating myself. Whenever people mistreat me or are rude toward me, I start taking it very personally and start losing faith in humanity to the extent that I have even thought of becoming a hermit. I tend to have extreme reactions toward the way people treat me.
So do I use Fe or Fi?