How do they correlate to one another? I'm an ENTJ but I quite particular about dining etiquette etc and politeness. I cannot stand rudeness. I was raised in a household where my parents were part of societies like Freemason's etc and I was dragged along to these dinners so I do know how to conduct myself in public. Is this Te, Fe or just a factor that is caused by upbringing? I find my ESFJ riends tend to do things that are quite embarrassing(talking in a cinema for example) but they're very concerned about the well being of others. My ESFJ friends and my ENFJ friend would take a blame for something that wasn't their fault just so other people wouldn't have to face the music. They're very self sacrificing but the ESFJs do tend to do some embarrassing things. On the other hand, I don't really care about others(I only care if I'm VERY close to them) and I'm definitely not self sacrificing, yet I place emphasis on things like these and my friends jokingly call me a snob LOL.
When I was younger, I used to say hurtful things to people without realising that they would get hurt, and I started to recognise what can and cannot be said around age 14. That being said, I do have moments of cluelessness every now and then.
The other Te doms I know are two ESTJs. I didn't really like them when I first met them because I found them bossy and slightly rude. However, I started to get along well with them after a while. The ESTJs I know have high moral standards but because of their relatively poor social skills, they are disliked whereas I am not.
Do I have well developed Fe or are there other factors that influence people and social etiquette?