My experience with the shared reality is that Je types super-love it when that "manipulation" suits what they want to see happen in the outer world. Pe types can satisfy every immediate need you have, know how to make "now" wonderful, generally speaking (relevant to the strengths of each respective Pe dom and aux strength of course.)
But when the shit hits the fan? When Pe types get caught in a pickle of a long-term consequence? The worst part can be that we did all the short-term things to be helpful, but all of that is sometimes thrown out the window and forgotten. So, fuck that. Pe helping make your NOW optimized and nice has real value. Ungrateful sots.
btw, saying that every type has strengths and weaknesses is a Ti fail of the obvious. OF COURSE they do.