Interesting I do relate to ESFPs quite a bit. I think we communicate and express ourselves very similarly. However, we prioritize our lives very differently. And, I get along with ISFJs quite well also. Not sure if I actually know any ISFPs... My best friend is an ISFx who thinks she's an INFJ.
In terms of the SJ temperament, I have found that I think very similarly to other SJs. I dated an ISTJ and even though our interaction styles and outward personalities were very different our thought processes and world views were remarkably similar. My dad is an ESTJ and we also process very similarly.
“We need to remember what's important in life: friends, waffles, work. Or waffles, friends, work. Doesn't matter, but work is third.” - Leslie Knope
"Nothing lasts forever, some things aren't meant to be. But you'll never find the answers 'til you set your old heart free."